Stakeholders have called on parents, teachers, and other socialization agents to invest more effort in grooming the boy-child, warning that neglecting him lays the foundation for societal crises. The Odushu Foundation, in partnership with Alerte Universal Limited and the United Nations, made this charge during a one-day seminar for male students of select secondary schools in Lagos, themed 'The Boy Child Blueprint: Character and Purpose.'
Event Highlights
The seminar, held at the Glass House, Faculty of Education, University of Lagos, featured speeches, a panel session, a quiz competition, and mentorship and networking sessions. It brought together educators, mentors, youth advocates, parents, students, and community leaders who expressed concern over the growing neglect of the boy-child. Speakers stressed the importance of raising boys with strong character, clear purpose, and sound emotional intelligence.
Collaboration for Change
Dr. James Useghan, founder of Alerte Universal and a United Nations Peace Ambassador, noted that the collaboration was driven by concern for the boy-child's future. 'At some point, the girl child is always reporting situations; the boy child should also have the opportunity to report issues. This is the first of its kind, and we hope for more programmes on the boy child,' he said.
Mr. Karinate Odushu, founder of the Odushu Foundation, warned that a neglected boy-child becomes a problem for society. 'A boy child not properly mentored today will become a problem tomorrow. Character wise, they need to identify themselves and know their purpose. The strength given to the boy child, if not properly channeled, can be used to oppress instead of protect,' he said.
Role of Parents and Society
Guest speaker Mrs. Moyinoluwa Olutayo urged fathers not to outsource their responsibilities, emphasizing that active fatherhood is critical to raising responsible young men. 'Society no longer needs boys who are merely good; it needs men of noble character,' she said. She stressed that character training should begin early, and mothers should correct harmful behavior instead of excusing it. She also called for moving beyond outdated definitions of masculinity that focus solely on physical strength and emotional suppression.
Impact on Participants
Showunmi Alameen Ajayi, a student of Ajayi Crowther Memorial Senior Grammar School, said the programme inspired him to remain focused and disciplined. 'The boy child should not allow bad grades or challenges to determine his future. We must continue to educate ourselves, work hard, and invest in our growth,' he said.
