Ghanaian Lady in Belgium Warns Against Quitting Jobs to Move Abroad
A Ghanaian lady residing in Belgium has shared a cautionary tale on social media, advising people against the common practice of resigning from stable jobs or selling properties to relocate abroad. In a TikTok video posted by the user @hartyinbelgium, she emphasized that such drastic moves are often not worth the financial and emotional toll, especially for those seeking monetary gains.
The Viral TikTok Advice
The lady, who studied in Belgium, recounted the experience of an acquaintance who considered quitting her job to move overseas. She explained that while moving abroad for education or exposure can be beneficial, doing so primarily for money when one already has a substantial life in their home country is a mistake. "Don't make those mistakes, unless your reason for coming abroad is something else, not monetary. If it's the exposure, the experience, international experience and other things. But if it's for money, forget it. You're doing well in Ghana. There's no need because when you come here, you're going to do menial jobs," she stated in the video.
Her caption reinforced this message: "Not everyone needs to move abroad. If you're stable where you are, think carefully before leaving everything behind for 'better money.' Abroad is not a shortcut—it comes with real challenges. Move with clarity, not pressure." In the comments section, she added that individual circumstances vary, and not everyone finds success abroad, with some people actually being better off in Ghana.
Public Reactions and Shared Experiences
The video sparked widespread reactions from viewers who shared their own stories and observations. Many echoed the lady's sentiments, revealing personal regrets and challenges faced after moving abroad.
- Nii Armah Mantse commented: "I've made that mistake and I'm still regretting it. I'm making more money here but still there's something missing. Trust me... People won't understand this da. I don't feel fulfilled being here."
- TyronneDorothy said: "Honestly I always say this—that if I was making a certain amount of money in Ghana, I'd have just stayed there and come abroad for visits."
- BobyGreene shared: "I fell into this trap. I left my job went to Canada. I actually came back home. I have never regretted my decision to come back home. That's my story. You will not know how blessed you are if you have a good job in Ghana."
Broader Context and Related Stories
This advice comes amid increasing discussions about migration and its realities. In related news, a man recently returned to Nigeria after 33 years in the UK, and a nurse came back after eight years abroad. Another lady who relocated to the UK announced her permanent return to Nigeria after just two years, citing reasons that resonated with many online users. These stories highlight a growing trend of individuals reassessing the value of living abroad versus maintaining stability in their home countries.
The lady's message serves as a reminder to carefully evaluate personal motivations and circumstances before making life-altering decisions. It underscores that while international experience can be enriching, it should not be pursued at the cost of existing security and fulfillment.
