A Nigerian man who once held a senior position back home has ignited a passionate online discussion after declaring his unwavering preference for life in the United Kingdom, even if it involves gruelling early morning commutes.
From Department Head to Early Riser: A Stark Contrast
The man, who identifies as @abekiology on TikTok, revealed he was formerly a head of department in Nigeria. He now finds himself in the UK, where his daily routine involves leaving for work as early as 4:00 am. Despite this drastic change, he firmly stated he would not trade his current situation for a return to Nigeria.
In a video posted on December 21, 2025, text overlay captured his sentiment: "I rather stay in the UK and go to work by 4am than to go back to...God dey!" He elaborated in the comments, drawing a poignant comparison between the challenges in both countries.
"I rather cry in an environment where there is security and stable power supply," he wrote, highlighting fundamental infrastructure and safety as his primary reasons for staying abroad.
Netizens Weigh In: Solidarity and Reality Checks
The post triggered a flood of reactions from Nigerians both at home and abroad, reflecting a wide spectrum of views on migration.
Many users expressed solidarity with his choice. User chrisj commented on security concerns, stating, "When people in Nigeria with moderate income are getting violently robbed; anyone from abroad will be taking a huge risk." Others, like joseph amadi who recently moved to the UK, acknowledged the struggle but affirmed the journey, saying, "It’s not easy but God dey."
The conversation also revealed the internal conflicts of the diaspora. User TIMZY? expressed sadness, having planned a return home before seeing the video: "Crying and planning to return home next month and gbam I came across this...I’m just too sad." Meanwhile, some in Nigeria questioned the constant complaints from those abroad, with tao_UI/UX Designer noting, "We wai dey Nigeria wan japa, the ones wai dey dere dem dey complain… omo!!!!!!"
Part of a Larger Trend: Brain Drain and Personal Sacrifice
This individual story echoes a broader national concern. The report connects it to alarms raised by the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) about the increasing exodus of lecturers and professionals from Nigeria.
The former HOD's lament about his 4 am starts underscores the personal sacrifices many make. He admitted the transition was harder than expected, feeling nostalgia for the more relaxed pace and status he enjoyed as a head of department in Nigeria. His new life in the UK demands a level of discipline and endurance that marks a complete lifestyle shift.
Ultimately, his stance, and the vigorous debate it spawned, put a human face on the complex 'japa' phenomenon, where the pursuit of stability and security often outweighs the comfort of familiar ground, regardless of the personal cost.
