Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has candidly shared how he navigates emotional pressure, revealing the vital role his wife plays during his most challenging times. In an interview with Dear Ife, the actor admitted that even he reaches breaking points and emphasized that no one should bear life's burdens alone.
Turning to His Wife in the Darkest Hours
Okanlawon explained that while he tries not to burden his wife due to her many responsibilities—including her career and raising their family—there are moments when he simply needs her presence and reassurance. “When the thing is just too hard, there's my wife. She's not the first because she's dealing with her own business and raising the family. But when it's hitting me too hard, I'll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me,” he said.
Building a Network of Support
The actor revealed that his emotional well-being does not rely solely on his marriage. He has intentionally built a network of trusted people, including a therapist, mentors, and close friends, whom he turns to for guidance or a listening ear. He encouraged men to stop carrying every burden alone, warning that emotional isolation can become dangerous over time.
The Protector Instinct
Discussing his role as a husband and father, Okanlawon admitted that he naturally sees himself as the protector of his loved ones. “My job is to protect the people around me. If gbege happens here now, the chances are I'm going to step in front. It's what needs to happen. There's no excuse. You also have to be aware enough to find healing,” he added.
Failed Career as a Master of Ceremonies
In a previous interview, Okanlawon also revealed that he once attempted a career as a Master of Ceremonies but failed woefully. He noted that when he first entered the entertainment industry, his initial interest was in event hosting, but he did not succeed in that field.
