A young Nigerian man has taken to social media to express his heartbreak after discovering that his girlfriend, who had insisted on a relationship without intimacy, cheated on him with another person. The man shared screenshots of WhatsApp messages that revealed the betrayal, stating that he had been deceived for four years.
Man Shares WhatsApp Chat After Girlfriend Who Banned Intimacy Cheats
In his post on Twitter, the user @instruvoice_ wrote: "I was deceived for 4 years ? She said she never loved me from the beginning and she wasn’t attracted ?. SHE CHEATED!!!" He added, "I know love will definitely find me. I refuse to be damaged." Along with the message, he attached a screenshot from seven months earlier that detailed the terms his girlfriend had set at the start of their relationship, including a ban on intimacy.
The earlier post read: "My babe told me face to face before we started dating that no s3x, and I agreed. Even kissing is forbidden. She also doesn’t entertain dirty talks. She has greatly influenced my walk with God. We don’t text or call without me doing my devotion in the morning. She will always send me devotion every morning before we start talking. She is genuinely a child of God. So I am fully ready to comply with every one of her terms and conditions. Abstinence is very possible in a relationship."
Reactions to the Man's Story
Social media users reacted strongly to the revelation. User @Sby107 commented: "Lmaooooo i am so sorry… when we say most people are using church to pretend, ppl will be arguing … you claim to be Christ like but you are doing rubbish…. 4 years?!!!! And she’s just saying this now bcs she has met someone else *smh." Another user, @LuxuryOre1, said: "She wasn’t attracted to you. So the kingdom relationship manual was a tool to keep you off her skirt. She might not do the same to the man she admire and want."
@thatgirltife_ added: "I'm sorry this is so funny ? so she used kingdom relationship to whine you? I understand not being attracted but she should've just told you." Meanwhile, @HandmaidenOgo wrote: "Yeh! Yeh! Yeh!! I remember you trended because of you and this your babe's gist. It's well ooh. Vehemently refuse to be damaged!!"
@Tobihbest remarked: "Laughing my arsenal out, play stupid games win stupid prizes.shola should put his courses out so some of you can actually buy. she cheated or she has been cheating siiiincee!! but what do i know. bruh wear your 'L' it is your badge of honor.Manageeee! it will do you like you want to die but you wont die."
@Khezman100 commented: "God suppose punish u join as the girl use u play, for this Nigeria una dey believe no s3x till marriage from Nigerian women and u dey spend on her oo, if u enter 10 relationships na wrong women u go dey fall into inshallah, Amen, Ase esu odara."
Similar Stories of Relationship Deception
In a related story, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian man shared how his relationship ended after discovering that his girlfriend had allegedly cheated on him and gotten pregnant by another man she once described as "a common tailor." The woman later married that man.
In another incident, a Nigerian man refused to pay his girlfriend's N500,000 hospital bill after she gave birth because he suspected she had cheated during pregnancy. He demanded a DNA test first, sparking mixed reactions online.
