Nigerian Woman Proud of Being Second Wife, Slams Man for Shaming Her
Proud Second Wife Slams Man for Shaming Her Online

A Nigerian woman named Rashidat has publicly called out Ochai Abraham, accusing him of repeatedly shaming her for being a second wife. Taking to Facebook on Wednesday, May 13, Rashidat shared a screenshot of one of his comments, expressing pride in her position and describing it as a gift from God.

Rashidat's Response

In her post, Rashidat wrote: “I have ignored your comments for a long time but I think this is the right time to reply respectfully. First of all Alhamdulillah I am proud of my position. At least I am better than your wife and even all your sisters who are first wives plus all the girls in your family who are busy following married men secretly Sir.”

She continued: “Being a second wife is a gift from God and I boldly accept it with peace and pride. Instead of bringing negativity to my page and business posts all the time focus on your own family and respect people’s choices. If you do not want more of this response kindly avoid any post that has to do with me peace.”

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Social Media Reaction

The post has sparked mixed reactions online, with some supporting Rashidat's stance while others criticize the institution of polygamy. Rashidat remains unapologetic, emphasizing her contentment and calling for respect for personal choices.

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