For a comedian whose career is built on public performance, Shane Gillis has managed to keep one aspect of his life remarkably private: his romantic relationships. The American podcaster and stand-up comic, best known for co-hosting the wildly popular Matt and Shane’s Secret Podcast, has long been a subject of speculation among fans eager to know who holds his heart. As of late 2025, the mystery continues, but pieces of his dating history have finally come to light.
Shane Gillis's Confirmed Relationship with Grace Brassel
The most significant and publicly acknowledged romance in Shane Gillis's recent history was with social media influencer and strategist Grace Brassel. The pair confirmed their relationship publicly in July 2024, although hints had been dropped years earlier. In a 2021 podcast appearance, Gillis mentioned he was dating someone he met on Instagram, and by 2023, he revealed on another podcast that he was in a two-year relationship and had moved in with his partner.
Grace Brassel, born in March 1999, is a University of Delaware graduate who works as a social media strategist. The couple was spotted together at high-profile events, including the 2025 ESPY Awards and a star-studded party in Watch Hill. Brassel also featured the comedian in her Instagram posts, offering fans rare glimpses into their life together.
However, in a twist reported by People magazine in November 2025, it was revealed that Shane Gillis and Grace Brassel had parted ways months prior. The exact length of their relationship remains unclear, but evidence suggests it lasted over two years.
Rumoured Romances and Dating Speculations
Before his relationship with Grace Brassel, Shane Gillis was linked to several other women, though none were ever officially confirmed. These rumoured connections have fueled much of the online gossip about his personal life.
Shih Ryan was one of the most persistent rumours. Allegedly a friend since age 16, speculation swirled that they dated and were even engaged to be married in 2020. Neither party addressed these claims.
Other names linked to Gillis include Tara Pavlovich, a radio station manager, and a woman named Claire, who was reportedly seen with him on multiple occasions. There was even a brief, unsubstantiated rumour connecting him to former Miss Universe Demi-Leigh Nel-Peters before she married Tim Tebow.
Who is Shane Gillis? Career Highlights and Controversy
To understand the man behind the rumours, one must look at his career. Shane Michael Gillis was born on December 11, 1987, in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania. He began his comedy career in 2012 and rose to prominence after winning Philadelphia's Phunniest Person contest in 2016.
His big break—and a major controversy—came in 2019 when he was hired as a cast member for Saturday Night Live (SNL). However, he was fired less than a week later after past recordings surfaced featuring him using racist and homophobic slurs. Gillis addressed the firing, stating he respected the network's decision as his presence would have been a distraction.
Despite this setback, his career flourished. His podcast became the most-subscribed on Patreon, and he released successful comedy specials: Shane Gillis: Live in Austin on YouTube (2021) and Shane Gillis: Beautiful Dogs on Netflix (2023). As of 2025, his net worth is estimated to be around $8 million.
So, who is Shane Gillis's girlfriend now? Based on available reports, the comedian is currently single following his split from Grace Brassel. True to form, Gillis continues to prioritize his privacy, leaving his fans to focus on his work rather than his love life. His story remains one of comedic success built on talent, resilience, and a deliberate separation between the stage and his personal world.
