Media personality Toke Makinwa has opened up about her initial apprehension regarding motherhood later in life, specifically worrying about being the oldest mother among her daughter's schoolmates' parents. Makinwa gave birth to her daughter in August 2025, just months after celebrating her 40th birthday.
The mother of one shared her candid feelings in a congratulatory message to Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and his wife, Cynthia, on the birth of their third child. In an Instagram story posted on Sunday, June 28, she wrote: “Funny how having a baby at 40, I was worried about being the oldest mommy in school.”
Concerns About Age and Community
Makinwa expressed that her concerns extended beyond just her age relative to other parents. She also worried about the fact that many of her friends already had grown children. “I was worried about all my friends' kids all grown but look at God,” she added in the same post.
However, the media personality found solace in the fact that many babies have been born recently, allowing her to connect with new mothers. “So many babies born this season. New mom friends and endless community,” she wrote, highlighting a positive turn in her journey.
Embracing Motherhood at 40
Makinwa's revelation comes as an encouragement to other women who may be considering motherhood later in life. By sharing her experience, she underscores the importance of community and support among mothers, regardless of age. Her story resonates with many who face similar concerns about age and parenthood.
The media personality has been open about her journey to motherhood, and this latest disclosure adds to her narrative of embracing life's changes with honesty and grace. Her message ultimately celebrates the joy of finding new connections and support systems, even when initial fears arise.
