A United States-based Nigerian man has ignited a fresh wave of discussion and speculation after publicly questioning the relationship between prominent preacher Apostle Joshua Selman Nimmak and Sandra Areh, following the emergence of new photographs showing the pair together in Canada. The images, which depict Selman and Areh in matching outfits, were shared on the verified Facebook page of Selman's ministry, Koinonia Global, on February 20, 2026, during his series of high-level ministerial engagements in North America.
Innocent Tino's Thought-Provoking Facebook Post
Innocent Tino, the US-based commentator, took to Facebook on Sunday, February 22, to express his concerns, wondering aloud about the current state of Christianity. He questioned how a pastor could be frequently seen traveling the world with a woman, performing what he described as 'wifely' duties, without being married to her, and why this appears to be accepted without criticism. Tino urged Selman to clarify the nature of his relationship with Sandra Areh, asking whether she is merely an associate or something more significant.
"Wait oo...I no really understand Christianity these days. How can a pastor be carrying his alleged fiancée all over the world and she is doing 'wifey' duties and yet they are not married and people aren't seeing anything wrong about this, and that this is not Christianity. Abi he get another bible una read? Or she is just his associates and if so, let him say it categorically and make she find her way... What is really going on?" Tino wrote in his post, which has since garnered widespread attention and reactions.
Background of the Rumors
Speculation about a romantic relationship between Apostle Joshua Selman and Sandra Areh, often referred to as 'Selwoman,' has persisted since 2019, though neither party has publicly confirmed or denied these claims. Sandra Areh is known to be a worker within Selman's church, Koinonia Global, adding fuel to the ongoing rumors. The latest photos from Canada have only served to reignite these discussions, with many social media users weighing in on the matter.
Mixed Reactions from the Public
The reactions to Tino's post have been varied, reflecting a broad spectrum of opinions:
- Karo Ebrus Enajemo commented: "If you dey alive during Jesus days, when he walked on earth, you for talk the same thing about Him and Mary Magdalene."
- Isabella Silas questioned: "Did he announce to you that she is his fiancée???? Was there any public announcements?? Where is the wifey duties abeg?? Do all wives kneel to feed there husband Abeg make Una leave this people oo when they are ready they will quench your curiosity."
- Ntui Mbey argued: "Which wifey duties is she performing? Giving him food? My mother gives me food, does that make her my wife? And if you guys are not seeing this picture, would it matter? The man owes none of us no explanation. Na content you just dey find."
- Jimmy Kiriti offered a different perspective: "Marriage happened the day he paid dowry to her parents. Wedding at the church is just a celebration with fellow brethren in faith. The question should be whether he paid her dowry."
- Adediji Toheeb speculated: "What if they are married but didn't tell the world (social media) about it? Pa Uma Ukpai died and his death wasn't known to the world till after about a week later."
- Chibuike Mbara stated: "She's an associate even though she's like also his fiancée. There's nothing wrong. She's here as an associate. She has always been there from the beginning of the ministry."
Previous Concerns and Messages
This is not the first time such concerns have been raised. Prior to Tino's post, a concerned woman had sent a message to Apostle Selman via Facebook on Saturday, February 21, urging him to "man up" and pay Sandra Areh's bride price, claiming that he is enjoying the benefits of marriage without formalizing the union. She advised Selman to initiate marriage talks with Sandra's family upon his return to Nigeria, highlighting the ongoing public interest in their relationship status.
The debate continues to unfold on social media, with many calling for clarity from Apostle Selman, while others defend his privacy and right to keep personal matters out of the public eye. As the discussions persist, the core questions about the boundaries between personal relationships and public ministry in contemporary Christianity remain at the forefront of this controversy.
