Parenting advocate and founder of Exemplary Events, Banke Amune, has emphasized that establishing stronger communication channels with children is crucial to avoid losing touch with the realities shaping their lives.
Breaking Generational Communication Barriers
During the inaugural Conversations With My Mum – Naija Edition 1.0, Amune brought together mothers and their children for a candid, judgment-free dialogue addressing parenting gaps, assumptions, and the emotional disconnect that often widens as children transition into teenagers and young adults.
The session created a rare platform where both generations openly exchanged concerns that had long been swept under the carpet. Amune, whose advocacy stems from her own childhood experiences, revealed that the initiative emerged from her personal determination to break unhealthy parenting cycles.
"I didn't have smooth conversations with my mum while growing up," Amune shared. "When I had my children, who are all girls, I knew I wanted a better communication system with them."
From Personal Struggle to Collective Solution
Amune explained that despite her early intentions, she discovered she was unconsciously raising her daughters in ways that mirrored her own upbringing. "Thankfully, with soul searching, seeking knowledge, and being intentional, I began rebuilding communication and strengthening relationships with my kids," she noted.
The UK-based advocate has already hosted three editions of the program in the United Kingdom this year and plans to run the forum quarterly across both Nigeria and the UK.
"Many parents believe availability means providing financially, but heartfelt conversations and quality time matter more," Amune emphasized. "Knowing what your child likes and dislikes, and having them see you as a trusted friend—that's what truly counts."
Transformative Impact on Families
Participants described the gathering as both timely and transformational. Entrepreneur and CEO of Christianabaz, Damilola Obazele, highlighted the session's relevance amid today's hectic lifestyles.
"This is good bonding for parents and children," Obazele stated. "I've learned more about how my child's mind works, and I'm committed to improving the quality of time I spend with my child."
Another attendee, Mrs. Yetunde Odejobi, commended the organizer for creating a bridge where communication had long been strained. "This initiative is truly needed, especially now when misunderstandings between parents and children are increasing due to ineffective communication," she said.
Amune stressed that the broader societal impact of improved parenting cannot be overstated. "Once we get the family setting right, society at large benefits. Better communication between parents and children translates to better citizens. That's the bigger picture," she concluded.
