A Nigerian man who left a comfortable position in his home country to relocate to the United Kingdom has opened up about the harsh realities of his new life, describing it as a challenging transition. The man, identified on social media as @Abekiology, recently sparked a conversation online after sharing a video of himself heading to work in the UK at 4:30 in the morning.
From Nigerian Comfort to UK Hustle
In a candid display of his daily struggle, the man filmed himself during his early morning commute. He expressed a deep sense of nostalgia for his previous life in Nigeria, where he held the respected position of a Head of Department (HOD). He highlighted the stark contrast between his past and present, pointing out the disciplined and demanding schedule he must now keep in the United Kingdom.
The man lamented in Pidgin English, "UK no easy o. This is me going to work 4:30 am. Former HOD for that matter. Wey I forgot still dey sleep by now if na Naija." This statement underscores the significant shift in lifestyle and status he has experienced since making the move abroad.
Social Media Erupts with Mixed Reactions
The video, which was shared on platforms like TikTok and X, quickly attracted a flood of comments from Nigerians both at home and in the diaspora. The reactions were varied, with some users empathizing with his plight while others offered contrasting perspectives on work-life balance in both countries.
One user, @Teezz, commented, "A lot of Lagosians are on their way to work by this time, irrespective of their job status," suggesting that early commutes are not unique to life abroad. Another user, @Yinkababy, offered a grim view of the UK system, stating, "UK is designed for us to work for the government until we retire. Hence why most live off credit cards. No enjoyment here my brother."
However, not all experiences were painted with the same brush. User @Uzzy shared a different story: "I used to wake up by 4:30am in Lagos. Cause I worked on the island. Now in UK I wake up by 7am. And get to work before 8am." This highlights the personal and situational nature of the 'Japa' experience.
Other comments ranged from curiosity about his current job compared to his former HOD role to direct challenges about the nature of work stress in Nigeria. The discussion revealed a complex tapestry of opinions on migration, sacrifice, and the pursuit of a better life.
The Broader Narrative of Relocation
This personal account adds to a growing collection of stories from Nigerians abroad who are speaking openly about the unforeseen challenges of relocation. The narrative often contrasts the initial dream of greener pastures with the reality of hard work, cultural adjustment, and sometimes, a lower social status than held back home.
The story was published on December 15, 2025, and continues to resonate with many who are either contemplating a move or are already navigating life in a new country. It serves as a poignant reminder that the journey of migration is multifaceted, involving both opportunity and significant personal sacrifice.
As the conversation continues online, it underscores the importance of having realistic expectations and a strong support system when embarking on such a life-changing decision. The man's final message, coupled with encouraging words from commenters like @Ijay176 who said, "Keep pushing bro you will be fine eventually," reflects the resilient spirit common in these narratives.
