A Nigerian man has shared a story that has ignited widespread discussion online after he made a startling discovery about a female guest he hosted in Asaba, Delta State.
The Shocking Discovery in Asaba
The man explained that he had invited a lady from Abuja to visit him in Asaba. They spent time together at his apartment. However, his curiosity led him to check her mobile phone later that same night, where he accessed her text messages.
What he found left him speechless. The messages revealed that he was not the only man the lady intended to see during her excursion to Asaba. She had a lineup of three other men she also planned to visit.
"She Was Controlling Four Men" - Man's Reaction
Expressing his dismay, the man stated in a video, "So this girl was controlling four men and she came to Asaba all the way from Abuja giving me hope that na me she come see." The story, shared on platforms like TikTok and X (formerly Twitter), has attracted a flood of reactions from netizens.
Mixed Reactions from Social Media Users
The online community responded with a mix of criticism, humour, and blunt advice for the man.
Some users focused on the man's action of checking the phone. @Govmentson commented, "A grown up man going through his visitors message. That’s so disrespectful." @AmazingJaypee questioned, "And you have the courage to stand on a ring light making video."
Others offered cynical but pragmatic perspectives on modern dating. @stmajoraa advised, "Should not be your problem. You have collected yours. Pass her to the other brothers in peace." @MistaSam_ philosophised, "This is not a new thing bro, she is your baby when she’s inside your house. The moment she steps out of your house, she is for the next bidder."
@SavannaConnect offered a brutal analogy: "Omo you weren’t the lucky one you were the warm-up exercise before the main events." Meanwhile, @crypto_psalm speculated the situation might be even more extensive, suggesting, "I fit shock you say na 6 guys na only 4 you see."
The incident was published on December 4, 2025, by journalist Israel Usulor, who has a decade of experience in reporting human-interest stories.