A Nigerian man has sparked widespread discussion online after revealing his controversial approach to spending money on women in relationships. His strategy, which he claims is common among men, involves adjusting his financial investment based on how women present themselves and their expectations.
The 'Understanding Girlfriend' Paradox
The X user, who previously gained attention for stating he dislikes "good women," explained his current philosophy in detail. He asserted that when a woman presents herself as an "understanding girlfriend" or "wife material" who's willing to manage with less, he becomes extremely nonchalant toward her.
"If you present yourself as an 'understanding girlfriend', one naira you no go see for my hand," he wrote emphatically. According to him, showing a man that you can manage with minimal resources is the "worst mistake" a woman can make in a relationship dynamic.
Rating System Determines Treatment
The man detailed his specific rating system that determines how he treats different women. He provided concrete examples of how this plays out in practical situations.
"I can have two girls coming to see me from Lagos to Port Harcourt on different dates; I will book a flight for one and ask the other one to follow GUO transport," he revealed, highlighting the stark contrast in treatment based on his assessment.
His evaluation criteria includes multiple factors that influence his spending decisions:
- Quality of skin and overall appearance
- Level of exposure and sophistication
- Quality of wigs, perfumes, and accessories
- Educational background and financial independence
- Family background and travel history
Travel and Gift Preferences Reflect Perceived Value
The man extended his philosophy to travel destinations and gift-giving, explaining how a woman's past experiences influence his choices for their relationship.
"If I see you have been to Maldives with your previous guy, I will aim towards taking you to Ibiza. If I see you don't even have an international passport, na Ocabique for Port Harcourt I go carry you go," he stated, referring to a local restaurant.
His approach to gifts follows the same pattern, particularly with his confessed love for gifting wigs. "I can't buy you a wig of 700k if I see you don't even own a decent one when I met you," he explained, emphasizing that the quality of gifts corresponds to the woman's established lifestyle.
The man concluded that "the richer, well-exposed, and sophisticated the woman is, the more I raise the bar" in the relationship. His previous viral statement about easily losing interest in women who are "all over him" adds context to his current revelation about relationship dynamics and financial investment patterns.
