A Nigerian mother, Latifat Shamseddin Giwa, has issued a powerful response after a social media user accused her of employing diabolical means, often referred to as 'jazz', to prevent her husband from marrying a second wife.
The Accusation That Sparked the Fire
The controversy began when a lady named Ruqoyah Oladimeji directed a post at Latifat on Facebook. In a screenshot shared by Latifat, Ruqoyah wrote pointedly, “And is it a crime for your husband to marry another wife? What makes you think your jazz will keep working forever? Unless your husband is not a full man, wait till your own time comes. Time and seasons happen to us all.” This public insinuation suggested Latifat's happy marriage was sustained by supernatural interference, not genuine love.
Latifat's Fiery and Emotional Rebuttal
On Tuesday, December 23, Latifat took to her own Facebook page to set the record straight. She firmly denied the allegations and offered a glimpse into the foundation of her relationship. “I patiently married the love of my life, a man so intentional, so loyal, he sees all my sacrifices, my effort, my love and loves me even more for it,” she declared.
She reminded critics that she married her husband during their years of struggle, implying that many of the women now commenting would not have been interested in him then. Her message was clear: her current marital bliss is the result of shared history and unwavering support, not magic.
Addressing the Critics and Finding Refuge in Faith
Latifat did not hold back in addressing the motivation behind the attacks. She suggested that the negativity stemmed from envy or unfulfilled desires. “Maybe it stings because you wish I were going through the hell you’re passing through, or maybe you’re secretly hoping he’d choose one of you as a second wife,” she wrote.
Central to her defense was her faith. She attributed her blessed union to divine favor, stating, “I relied on Allah in every step of my life, and He blessed me with a husband worth every bit of patience and prayer.” She concluded her post by seeking refuge in God over her marriage and happiness, and leaving the judgment of her accusers to a higher power.
This online exchange highlights the intense social pressures and judgments surrounding marriage, polygamy, and success in relationships within the Nigerian context. Latifat's story resonates as a testament to enduring love built on partnership and faith, fiercely defended against baseless accusations.
