Nollywood actress Anita Joseph has issued a direct appeal to men flooding her Instagram direct messages with romantic interest, mere hours after she publicly confirmed the collapse of her five-year marriage. The actress, who was married to hypeman Michael Fisayo Olagunju, popularly known as MC Fish, stated that the influx of messages was so intense it threatened to crash her phone.
From Marriage Announcement to a Plea for Space
On Tuesday, December 23, 2025, Anita Joseph broke her silence and confirmed widespread rumours that her marriage had ended. In a heartfelt statement, she acknowledged the pain of the experience but expressed her commitment to embracing grace, growth, and faith moving forward. She did not delve into specific details about what led to the marriage's dissolution.
However, the focus quickly shifted from her marital status to the immediate reaction from male admirers online. Shortly after her announcement, the actress took to her Instagram story to address the surge of attention. "I'm single, but I'm not searching, plz. You guys rest, don't flood my DMs, my phone will crash," she wrote in a clear message to her prospective suitors.
Mixed Reactions from Netizens
The actress's public plea ignited a flurry of mixed reactions across social media platforms. While some netizens offered sympathy and support, others questioned her motives, suggesting the call-out was a ploy for attention.
Comments compiled from social media showcased the divide. One user, Linda Ben-whyte, queried, "Was it not what the announcement was meant for...why the pretence." Another, Ugwoke Micheal Onyemaechi, made a distinction about the suitors' intentions, commenting, "For marriage or for bed? Real Odogwu no dey use DM. Na yahoo boys dey do DM."
Conversely, some users defended her. Somma Faithfulness Jewel noted, "I trust naija men they will attack and talk down on you on social and rush into her dm like a stray puppy." Others, like Uchman Okagba, simply wished her well: "Congratulations on your ending your marriage. Wishing you the best.."
Addressing Critics and Moving Forward
This incident is not the first time Anita Joseph has clapped back at critics following her marriage collapse. Legit.ng previously reported that the actress fired back at a netizen who advised her to revert to her father's surname. She has consistently shown a willingness to engage with and sometimes challenge public commentary about her personal life.
In related news, a popular seer known as Bright had once sent a message and warning to Anita Joseph and MC Fish about their divine calling. In a viral video, the seer stated that the couple were destined to work for God and could not run away from this calling, a prophecy that now resonates differently in light of their separation.
As the dust settles on her marriage announcement, Anita Joseph's primary message remains one of requesting respect and space. Her declaration of being "single but not searching" is a firm boundary set amidst the public scrutiny, highlighting the immediate and often intrusive consequences of celebrity life events in the digital age.
