Family Friend Breaks Silence on Omije Ojumi's Posthumous Family Conflict
A family friend of late gospel singer Bunmi Akinnaanu, popularly known as Omije Ojumi, and her former spouse Rotimi Adeoye has publicly addressed the escalating family dispute that emerged following the singer's recent burial. The friend, identified as Daniel, who has known the couple since 2005, took to social media platforms to share his perspective on the origins of their marital breakdown and subsequent tensions.
Funeral Drama and Allegations of Abandonment
During Omije Ojumi's funeral proceedings last week, significant drama unfolded when her children reportedly refused to communicate with their father, Rotimi Adeoye. This public display of discord prompted Daniel to intervene and clarify what he describes as misconceptions surrounding Adeoye's role as a parent. In detailed posts on Facebook and Instagram, Daniel vehemently denied claims that Adeoye abandoned his children, asserting instead that the ex-husband single-handedly raised their daughter for seven years while Omije Ojumi resided in Nigeria.
Child Custody Disputes and International Incidents
Daniel provided specific accounts of child custody issues that plagued the couple's relationship. He revealed that their first child, Oluwajomiloju, was born in London, and alleged that Omije Ojumi insisted her personal prophet be present before agreeing to a naming ceremony. Furthermore, Daniel claimed that with Adeoye's consent, Omije Ojumi later took their daughter from London, leading to a reported missing child case with security agencies in the United Kingdom. According to his testimony, a reference number was issued for this investigation, which he stated could be verified with London authorities.
Photo Evidence and Caregiver Testimony
To substantiate his claims, Daniel shared photographic evidence from 2011 showing the woman who reportedly cared for Oluwajomiloju while Adeoye was at work. This visual documentation aims to counter narratives that suggest Adeoye was an absent father. Daniel also recounted an incident during a six-hour journey where he alleges Omije Ojumi cursed individuals she believed were opposing her, adding another layer to the complex interpersonal dynamics within the family.
Media Intervention and Public Reactions
The family friend disclosed that the matter between Akinnaanu and Adeoye was reported to 88.7 FM in 2024 but was not pursued further due to Omije Ojumi's reputation as a respected gospel artist. This revelation has sparked varied reactions from social media users. Comments range from criticism about the timing of these disclosures to acknowledgments of potential truth in the allegations. Some users expressed concern that speaking out while Omije Ojumi was alive might have damaged her career, while others emphasized the importance of hearing both sides in marital disputes.
Broader Context of the Singer's Passing
This family conflict emerges against the backdrop of Omije Ojumi's recent death, which followed public appeals from colleagues and fans for financial assistance with her medical expenses. Gospel singer Lanre Alawilese previously noted that Omije Ojumi was aware of fundraising efforts but that they proved insufficient. The current revelations add a poignant dimension to the late singer's legacy, highlighting unresolved personal struggles that have now entered the public domain.
