Nigerian singer, actor, and politician Banky W has opened up about the surprising start of his relationship with his wife, Adesua Etomi-Wellington, revealing that she was the one who made the first move. During a candid interview with Teju Babyface, the couple shared intimate details of their decade-long love story, offering fans a glimpse into the evolution of their bond.
From Friend Zone to Forever
Banky W explained that he initially pursued Adesua, but she kept him firmly in the friend zone for over a year. Rather than continue pushing, he decided to step back and focus on prayer. 'Adesua was actually the one who asked me to be her husband. She kept me in the friend zone for a long time, so I stopped pushing and simply prayed to God to touch her heart. After a year and a few months, she finally called me ‘my husband’, and that’s it,' he said. That unexpected moment marked the turning point that led to a serious relationship and eventually marriage.
Stronger After a Decade
Adesua spoke about how their connection has grown stronger over time. 'We’ve been married for 10 years and we still hold each other’s hands all the time, we sleep together with our feet touching each other. I didn’t want to marry an artiste, a pastor and a politician but God gave me all three,' she said. The couple, who tied the knot in 2017 after starring in the Nollywood hit The Wedding Party, are often regarded as one of Nigeria’s most admired celebrity marriages.
Banky W and Adesua have two children: their first son, Hazaiah Wellington, born in early 2021, and their second son, Zekiah, announced in October 2025. Over the years, Banky W has balanced his careers as a musician, pastor, and politician, while Adesua has continued to build her career in film and television. Their story, from friendship to marriage, remains relatable to fans, highlighting that timing and faith can play crucial roles in love.
