A Nigerian bride-to-be has expressed deep disappointment after struggling to gather a group of ladies to participate in her asoebi plans. In a private WhatsApp chat that has gone viral, she lamented that everyone she invited gave flimsy excuses, leaving her feeling exhausted and discouraged.
Bride-to-Be Shares Frustration in Viral Chat
Her sister, identified by the TikTok handle @melody, posted a screenshot of their conversation, revealing the bride-to-be's predicament. The bride-to-be noted that the asoebi fabric cost only 10,000 naira, which she considered affordable. She admitted that she lacked close female friends and felt disheartened about how her ceremony was unfolding.
In the chat, she wrote: 'Omo I'm tired. Everyone is just giving clumsy excuses. Asoebi of just N10k. I don't even have female friends. I go just do am like that. I'm tired. Which kind wedding be this?'
Sister Offers Blunt Assessment
Reacting to her sister's pain, the young lady offered a blunt assessment of the situation. She claimed that ladies could be unreliable and reminded the bride-to-be that her current situation was a consequence of not maintaining friendships. She added that the situation confirmed why having friends was sometimes necessary, especially during important life events.
In her words: 'Girls are not goood people. You don't have friends na, what do you expect? You see why it's good to have friends sometimes.'
Reactions from Social Media Users
The post quickly drew attention on TikTok as many viewers reacted to the scenario and shared their opinions.
- @TheBusyOptometrist said: 'This is me right now. I need asoebi girls for 11th April in Imo state please, most of my friends are married, most have travelled out. Please I need asoebi girls.'
- @Deemma said: 'Mine are married sha, I had to use my sister's friend's. The cloth is free sef. 9th of May.'
- @Moradol commented: 'Me too, my wedding is next month and everyone is giving excuses. I didn't even sell asoebi so that it will be a relief and much easier.'
- @ucee added: 'One single friend I no get but if you see Asoebi on my wedding day omo my mother-in-law asked me where I parked them from most of them came 3 days before the marriage self I was not even expecting them to come much that was why I gave out too much clothes in case some will disappoint but to my greatest surprise all of them came I was so happy.'
Similar Stories of Wedding Woes
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a Nigerian lady shared her heartbreaking experience after her bridesmaids failed to show up at her wedding. The bride also lamented that her makeup artist did a bad job on her face, and she had to leave it like that because she had no choice.
