RHOL Star Diiadem Adeola Opens Up on Domestic Violence in Her Marriage: 'I Was Six Weeks Pregnant'
Diiadem Adeola, a well-known reality star and businesswoman, has bravely recounted the distressing domestic violence she endured during her marriage, revealing that the abuse began when she was just six weeks pregnant. In a candid interview on the popular show Diary of a Naija Girl, she detailed the events that led to her decision to leave the marriage, despite the challenges of having a baby. Her heartfelt revelations have ignited a wave of reactions from fans, many of whom have shared their own similar experiences in solidarity.
Diiadem's Harrowing Experience
According to Diiadem, the domestic violence started early in her pregnancy, with her initially making excuses for her husband and blaming herself. She thought that perhaps she was 'talking too much,' which she believed triggered the abuse. Despite the ongoing violence, she proceeded with the traditional introduction ceremony due to family pressure, but she had already resolved not to go through with the marriage. After the ceremony, she firmly backed out of the marriage plans, citing the domestic violence as the primary reason.
In her own words, Diiadem stated: 'I was six weeks pregnant when he first started to hit me. I only proceeded with our introduction because of family pressure, but I knew I wasn’t getting married to him. Anyone I know can’t go through domestic violence on my watch; I’ll make sure I try my best to get them out of that situation.' She emphasized that, based on her personal ordeal, she would never allow anyone to remain in an abusive marriage and would intervene immediately to help remove them from such dangerous environments.
Fan Reactions and Shared Stories
The interview sparked significant reactions among fans, who expressed shock and empathy. Many were appalled that a man could abuse a woman while she was carrying his child, leading to widespread discussions on social media. Fans shared their own stories of domestic violence, offering advice and support. For instance:
- @beachwearng shared: 'If you never experience am before you go think say na lie, May we not be a victim of domestic violence.'
- @oreoluwsherself commented: 'Imagine hitting the woman carrying your child; some men are supposed to be living in the zoo with animals.'
- @nellynells recounted: 'I got my friend out of such, the man dey fight my enemy spiritually as them no born him mama well to try it physically, useless thing.'
- @arikkye wrote: 'Have been there and it's one of the horrible things that can happen to anyone. I thank God for life.'
- @mohammed tohss reacted: 'But human beings should understand domestic violence doesn’t start without common behavior, it’s something that must transpire to physical.'
Background and Previous Controversies
This is not the first time Diiadem Adeola has been in the spotlight for personal matters. In 2024, she addressed rumors claiming that the Governor of Lagos State, Babajide Sanwo-Olu, was funding her lifestyle. A faceless blogger had alleged that the governor, who won the 2023 election in Lagos, was building a house for her and financing her expenses. Diiadem publicly slammed these claims, dismissing them as baseless and unfounded.
Published on March 18, 2026, at 11:08 PM by Shade Metibogun, this article highlights the ongoing issues of domestic violence in relationships, particularly among public figures. Shade Metibogun, an entertainment editor at Legit.ng since 2023, brings over a decade of experience in both print and online media, including roles at THEWILL and the Institute for Media and Society. She holds a Post Graduate Diploma in Education (2016) and a Bachelor's Degree in Literature in English from Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria (2004).
