Popular spoken word artist, poet, author, and journalist Tofarati Ige, widely known as Grand Tycoon, has challenged the growing stereotype that Nigerian women are primarily motivated by money. He insists that many simply desire genuine love, respect, and meaningful emotional connection.
Refuting Misconceptions
Speaking on modern relationships and public perceptions of women, the celebrated poet said the popular narrative often misrepresents what many Nigerian women truly want. “There is this popular stereotype that Nigerian women are only interested in money. But that is not entirely true,” he stated. “Most Nigerian women just want to be loved genuinely. They want consistency, effort and sincerity. Of course, financial stability is important in any serious relationship, but it is unfair to reduce women to just that.”
Deeper Connections Over Objectification
Known for his emotionally rich poetry and relationship-themed performances, Grand Tycoon noted that many women are increasingly tired of being objectified or viewed through a purely sexual lens, especially in today’s social media conversations. “Not all women want to be approached from a sexual angle. Some want to be engaged on a deeper level intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. They want conversations that stimulate their minds. They want partners who see them as complete human beings, not just bodies,” he added.
According to him, the media and entertainment space sometimes amplifies a narrow version of womanhood, which in turn shapes public perception. “When you constantly push content that objectifies women, people begin to assume that that is all women care about. But there are many women who value intelligence, ambition, purpose and growth. They want to be heard and understood,” he stated.
Poetry’s Enduring Relevance
Speaking on his craft, Grand Tycoon maintained that poetry remains relevant and in high demand, particularly during the Valentine season when expressions of love peak. “Poetry is very much alive. Every Valentine season, my books are usually in high demand because people are looking for the right words to express what they feel. Not everyone can articulate deep emotions, so they turn to poetry,” he enthused.
The spoken word artist, who also works as the entertainment editor of Punch Newspaper, added that beyond romantic occasions, poetry continues to resonate with audiences because it speaks to universal experiences. “Poetry is timeless. It captures love, pain, hope and everything in between. In a fast-paced world, people still crave words that make them pause and reflect,” Grand Tycoon said.
Encouraging Emotional Intelligence
He encouraged men to move beyond superficial gestures and cultivate emotional intelligence in their relationships. “Love is not just about spending money. It is about presence, respect and depth. When we begin to value women beyond physical attraction or financial expectations, relationships will become healthier and more fulfilling,” he concluded, urging society to challenge harmful stereotypes and create space for more nuanced conversations about love, gender, and human connection.
