Nigerian music star Harrison Tare Okiri, widely recognized by his stage name Harrysong, has ignited a fresh wave of controversy by posting a video featuring his two young daughters during an ongoing and highly publicized custody conflict with their mother, Alexer Perez Gopa. The emotional clip emerged just days after Alexer made a tearful announcement that she was relinquishing custody of their children, aged four and three, citing alleged years of harassment and pressure from the singer following their separation.
Alexer's Heartbreaking Decision and Allegations
In a deeply personal Instagram story shared on Thursday, January 29, 2026, Alexer Perez Gopa revealed her difficult choice to temporarily hand over custody of their children. She detailed a pattern of alleged interference from Harrysong, including unannounced visits to her home and actions she claims were designed to frustrate her efforts as a single parent. According to Alexer, she has been raising the children independently for the past two years but felt overwhelmed by the singer's persistent involvement.
She accused Harrysong of leveraging his influence and financial resources to create an untenable situation, forcing her to step back for the sake of her own mental well-being. Alexer emphasized that her decision was not an admission of defeat but a strategic move to find peace and rebuild her life, with plans to relocate from Asaba to Lagos. She expressed profound concern for her children's health and safety under their father's care, vowing to resume her fight for custody when circumstances improve.
The Viral Video and Fan Reactions
The video shared by Harrysong shows the singer gently coaxing his daughters into a car, reportedly to take them to their mother's residence. In the footage, one of the little girls can be heard expressing reluctance to go to "mummy's house," while Harrysong calmly explains that he has no alternative, aiming to avoid further public disputes with his ex-partner. This clip has polarized fans and followers across social media platforms.
Mixed Responses from the Online Community
Reactions to the video have been sharply divided, with many netizens accusing Harrysong of manipulation. User pharmjoy_mikah commented, "This is enough proof that he is the problem. He is using those kids to manipulate the whole situation. Give that child 1 hour, she will look for mummy." Similarly, austinelois__ labeled him an "Original manipulator."
Others offered more nuanced perspectives, suggesting the children's preferences might be influenced by material comforts or parental rules. User zenny0617 noted, "The girl forgot about not going to her moms house when she saw grape ? Oya cut the camera ?." Meanwhile, hannahmaiye questioned, "Bcos he probably have money more than the lady and also gives them things they don’t have in mummy’s house. They are children ; y is the other one not saying same?"
Background of the Bitter Dispute
This latest development follows a series of public accusations exchanged between the former couple. Previously, Alexer made shocking allegations against Harrysong, including claims about personal hygiene issues and family background, which she shared on social media. She alleged that the singer bedwets and criticized his mother's marital history, describing him as a product of adultery. These statements came in response to Harrysong's own accusations against her, further escalating their feud.
The custody battle has captivated Nigerian entertainment circles, highlighting the emotional toll of high-profile separations on families. As both parties continue to air their grievances publicly, fans remain engaged in heated debates about parental responsibility, celebrity influence, and the welfare of the children caught in the middle.
