Nigerian Singer Iyanya Shares Candid Thoughts on Celibacy and Marriage
Nigerian singer and songwriter Iyanya Onoyom Mbuk, popularly known as Iyanya, has opened up about his personal struggles with maintaining celibacy and his current stance on marriage. The 39-year-old artist made these revelations during a recent appearance on the Afropolitan podcast, where he spoke with refreshing honesty about his journey of self-discovery and healing.
The Challenge of Maintaining Celibacy
Iyanya admitted that his attempts at celibacy have been inconsistent and challenging. He explained that his resolve often weakens when he encounters attractive women or situations that test his commitment. The singer described this process as fluctuating, with periods of discipline followed by lapses that leave him feeling regretful afterwards.
"My journey with celibacy has been one of ups and downs," Iyanya shared during the interview. "There are moments when I'm completely disciplined, and then there are times when attraction leads me to break my commitment. It's a constant struggle to maintain consistency."
Why Marriage Is Not a Current Priority
The "Kukere" crooner emphasized that marriage is not currently on his agenda as he focuses on personal healing and growth. He revealed that his present stage in life is centered around recovery from past experiences and working on himself before considering serious commitment.
"Right now, I'm in a healing phase," Iyanya explained. "Marriage isn't my priority because I need to work on myself first. I believe in being complete as an individual before bringing someone else into my life."
Honesty in Relationships
Iyanya discussed how maturity has changed his approach to relationships. He now practices complete honesty with women he meets, telling them upfront that he's not in a space for serious commitment. This approach, he believes, prevents misleading others and shows respect for their feelings.
"Maybe when I was younger, I would just say what people wanted to hear," Iyanya reflected. "But now, what has helped me is being straightforward. I tell women, 'I'm not in that space, and I'm not going to lie to you or play with your emotions.' This honesty has saved me from unnecessary complications."
Fan Reactions to Iyanya's Revelations
Social media users have shared mixed reactions to Iyanya's candid interview:
- One fan commented on his dreamy voice quality
- Another praised the interview as legendary and inspiring
- Some expressed interest in hearing more about his relationship history
- Others offered advice about his healing journey
Recent Fan Engagement
This isn't the first time Iyanya has engaged with fans on personal matters. Recently, he sparked conversation on social media when he expressed willingness to gift money equivalent to the price of rice bags to supporters during the festive season. The discussion led to humorous exchanges about current rice prices in Nigeria.
Iyanya's openness about his personal struggles and growth journey represents a shift in how celebrities approach discussions about relationships and personal development in the public eye. His emphasis on honesty and self-work before commitment resonates with many navigating similar paths in today's complex dating landscape.
