Apostle Joshua Aghasedo, a Nigerian cleric, has ignited widespread online debate after publicly endorsing the use of adult toys within marriage, a stance that has drawn both support and sharp criticism from Nigerians.
Aghasedo's Unconventional Recommendation
In a clip that surfaced on August 12, 2026, Aghasedo argued that adult toys should not be automatically deemed sinful, describing them as functional tools that can serve a purpose within a marital relationship. He drew parallels to everyday technology, questioning whether driving a car or using a phone could be classified as sin, since both are equipment designed to ease life.
The cleric clarified that he has never personally used such a device, but he insisted that modern technology of this nature can assist couples with their private lives. He went further, disclosing that he had, on at least one occasion, recommended an adult toy to a married couple after carefully considering their circumstances.
Reasoning Centered on Fidelity
Aghasedo's reasoning focused on keeping couples faithful to one another and preventing one partner from seeking intimacy outside the marriage. "I have suggested sxx toy to a couple before. When I look at all the surrounding circumstances, so that somebody is not going out and all those things. I'm not joking. It's an equipment to help the process," he said.
He stressed repeatedly that his comments applied strictly within the framework of marriage, and that adult toys are appropriate only for married couples. In his view, using such a device outside of marriage, or independently by a single individual, crosses into self-pleasure, which he equated with the sin of the flesh under his religious interpretation.
Where He Drew the Line
"Adult toy is only for married couple. We are talking within the framework of marriage, right? Not outside. Now, if you engage it on your own, it's called 'sin of the flesh'," he stated.
His comments have sparked debate among Nigerians, with many questioning whether a religious leader's endorsement of such items, even within marriage, aligns with conservative Christian teaching. Legit.ng gathered some reactions below:
- @mmixorma wrote: "It's more than just equipment. Some married couples replace their spouse with it, and it could be addictive?"
- @VeriffydVoice opined: "This one wife don make'am dey preach nonsense ?."
- @CInno001 penned: "God have mercy on these pastors , imagine pastor saying it is not a sin ??."
- @UdembaHenrychu1 suggested: "This pastor doesn't have a pastor over him, that's why he made this kind of statement, because if he does he's cooked already."
- @Jhaymie69 noted: "Honestly, I don't see why every tool used within marriage should automatically be labelled sinful."
Broader Context and Reactions
Legit.ng also reported on a dramatic incident during the 74th Annual Convention of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, where a woman interrupted Pastor E.A. Adeboye to demand ordination. This unexpected moment not only captivated the congregation but also underscored the fervent faith and determination some individuals hold in seeking spiritual recognition.
The debate over Aghasedo's stance continues to unfold, with no consensus in sight among Nigerians on whether such endorsements are appropriate for religious leaders.
