Nigerian music star Rema has opened up about the emotional reasons behind his decision to end his last romantic relationship. The 'Calm Down' crooner shared his story during a candid conversation with YouTuber Korty EO, revealing that the relationship, which started beautifully, gradually became emotionally exhausting.
Pressure from Fame and Home
Rema explained that being a public figure comes with heavy expectations. Between his music career, constant attention from fans, and pressure from the entertainment industry, he often looked forward to home as his safe space. However, instead of finding relief, he encountered more tension. 'Knowing the world puts so much pressure on me but coming back home is where you want to feel relieved... but when you come back home and you are getting more pressure, it's a different story,' he said.
The award-winning singer admitted that the relationship had many happy moments in the beginning. He described it as beautiful and meaningful, saying there were parts of it he genuinely enjoyed. But over time, things became more complicated. 'My romantic relationship was beautiful but a little quite manipulative,' Rema revealed.
Emotional Toll and Decision to Leave
Rema said that one particular relationship left him mentally exhausted, and the decision to leave became necessary. He stressed that after dealing with pressure from fame, he needed peace at home but found more tension instead. 'For now, I'm done,' he added, indicating that he is not ready to pursue another relationship at this time.
The singer's comments have struck a chord with many fans who could relate to wanting peace in their personal lives after facing outside stress. Social media users reacted to the interview, with one user, @ThaGreatDavid, stating, 'Coming home or being with someone you love is supposed to feel like a place of peace.' Another user, @MarkRockfo83522, shared, 'Was in the same Space some couple of years ago..mehnn,I just had to let go because you only have yourself,so you need to give yourself that peace.'
Rema's Pre-Performance Rituals
In another recent interview, Rema revealed the personal rituals he follows before stepping on stage to perform. He explained that the routine helps him prepare mentally and physically for the demands of live performance. His process involves drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes, praying, and connecting with his team to ensure everything is in place.
Relationship Preferences
Earlier, Rema opened up about the quality he values most in a girlfriend, making it clear that style matters more to him than money. During an interview with The People Gallery, when asked whether he would rather have a girlfriend with financial strength or one with a sense of style, Rema responded confidently that he already has the funds, so what he looks for is style.
Rema's revelations have sparked conversations about the challenges of maintaining relationships under the spotlight of fame and the importance of finding peace at home.
