In a candid revelation that has stirred conversations online, renowned Nigerian gospel singer Sola Allyson has shared intimate details about the complexities of her marital life, stating she has never felt the joy often associated with marriage.
A Mutual Decision to Live Apart
Speaking during a recent appearance on the Oyinmomo Podcast, the soulful vocalist behind hits like "Eji Owuro" disclosed the current state of her union with husband Toyin Obaniyi. Allyson confirmed that while they remain legally married, they have mutually agreed to live in separate residences. "I must confess that I am married, but my husband and I decided to live apart; he in his house and I in mine," she explained. The singer, who tied the knot in 2003 and shares three children with Obaniyi, emphasized that this arrangement was not a product of hostility but a conscious decision.
The Absence of Marital Joy
Delving deeper into her personal experience, Sola Allyson made a poignant confession that challenged common perceptions of wedded bliss. "Marriage has been a big challenge. I hear people talk about joy in marriage, but I have never experienced it," she stated. This frank admission highlights a personal journey markedly different from the fairy-tale narrative often projected onto celebrity unions.
Despite her painful experiences, the singer clarified that she harbors no bitterness. She described her approach to relationships as one of wholehearted commitment, contingent on mutual respect. "I can do anything for a man as long as he does not maltreat me," Allyson noted, drawing a clear boundary against abuse or mistreatment.
Social Media Reactions and Broader Commentary
The singer's disclosure sparked a wave of reactions from fans and social media users, with many praising her honesty and wisdom.
User @the_thicklady supported Allyson's stance on spousal independence, commenting: "She is right we need to abolish that stupid term 'Husband house'... How would you say you are in your husband’s house? What is that even supposed to mean? Are you a child with no agency?"
Another user, @TheosophiaQueen, expressed admiration: "She is so full of wisdom. I can see why I am so connected with her. Her views about life, relationships and religion are so on point."
However, not all feedback was positive. User @kolawoleolowo1 offered a critical perspective: "I knew this lady wasn't a gospel artist a long time ago... A total fake. I wish her well though."
This interview follows previous commentary from Allyson where she criticized women who constantly make material demands from their partners, recounting her own experience of turning down money from a wealthy boyfriend.
Sola Allyson's openness provides a rare, unfiltered look into the realities that can exist behind closed doors, challenging societal expectations and encouraging a dialogue on autonomy, respect, and the diverse definitions of a successful partnership.
