Toke Makinwa Advises Women Against Marriage in Their 20s
Media personality and actress Toke Makinwa has argued that women should not rush into marriage during their 20s. She made the statement during a recent episode of her podcast, Toke Moments, which featured reality TV star Tacha as a guest. According to Makinwa, many women are still discovering themselves in their 20s and may not yet have the clarity needed to make major life decisions.
“Women have no business getting married in their 20s. You don’t even know yourself yet,” she said. The media personality further claimed that many women who married in their 20s now regret not waiting longer. “Those who did are regretting it now. Even those who are still married, if they are being honest, they will tell you that they shouldn’t have rushed it,” Makinwa added.
Reactions from Social Media Users
Her comments have reignited debate about the ideal age for marriage, particularly among young Nigerians. Some social media users supported her view, while others disagreed. User @dcaking01 stated: “If you are at least 24, got a good job and a man or woman who 'truly' loves you, bro/sis get married.... Don't let no miserable individual tell you otherwise.” @SirBonaventure noted: “Why do we have to listen to those who failed at something to be the best teachers for what others did very well at?”
Tacha Shares Her Mother’s Humorous View
Tacha, who was a guest on the podcast, also shared a humorous perspective on marriage. “My mum says marriage is like an institution. Those inside want to get out, those outside can’t wait to get in,” she said. The comment added a lighter tone to the discussion about marital timing and readiness.
Broader Context: Toke Makinwa on Tithing
In a separate interview with Chude Jideonwo, Makinwa opened up about her decision to stop paying tithe to churches. She cited personal experiences and questions about how donated money is used. The mother of one said her decision followed deep reflection on faith and giving.



