A Nigerian lady who spent years living in the United Kingdom has made the decision to return to her home country and start afresh at the age of 37. In a heartfelt video shared on TikTok under the handle @valeen_oseh, she opened up about her achievements abroad and the reasons behind her move back to Nigeria, sparking widespread reactions.
Why She Left the UK
The lady explained that after years of studying, building a career, moving between countries, and constantly being in survival mode, she felt exhausted. She decided to return to Nigeria to focus on her healing journey. In her video caption, she wrote: "A few months ago, I left the UK and moved back to Nigeria. If you had told me a few years ago that I'd be starting over at 37, I probably wouldn't have believed you. Yet here I am."
She continued: "After years of studying, building a career, moving countries, chasing goals, surviving things I never imagined I would have to survive, and constantly being in 'go mode,' I made the difficult decision to come home and focus on my healing journey. The truth is, I don't know what the next chapter looks like."
Uncertainty and Courage
The lady admitted that she does not know where she will live long term, what opportunities will come her way, or what life will look like a year from now. However, she emphasized that she is choosing to slow down, reconnect with herself, and build a life that feels good from the inside out. She expressed a mix of emotions, saying: "Some days I'm excited. Some days I'm scared. Some days I wonder if I've made the right decision. And some days I grieve the version of life I thought I'd be living by now. But I'm learning that starting over isn't failure. Sometimes it's courage."
She invited others who have moved back home after living abroad or are considering it to share their stories, noting that she is reading all direct messages and appreciates the kind words. She also mentioned that she is currently in Lagos and realizing the importance of community during such a transition.
Reactions from Viewers
The video garnered numerous comments from viewers who shared their own experiences and support. TUNJI WEALTH ONILE AJE commented: "The thought of not having to work everyday to pay monthly rent should first give you some sort of peace. I moved back too and I'm loving it. I'm rooting for you." Another user, wande_bokinni, wrote: "I moved back in 2024! You are not crazy. You are acknowledging what a lot of people refuse to." A user named A said: "Enjoy it, cheaper bills is always nice."
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In a related story, a man returned to Nigeria after 33 years in the UK, while another nurse returned after eight years abroad. Additionally, Legit.ng previously reported that a lady who relocated to the UK announced her return to Nigeria permanently after spending two years abroad. She explained why she returned permanently, and her reason caught people's attention, as they welcomed her back home.
