A young Nigerian woman has shared her devastating experience of losing what she believed was her potential husband, all because of her state of origin in a story that has sparked conversations about tribal prejudice in relationships.
The Heartbreaking Revelation
In an emotional TikTok video that has since gone viral, Perpetual Ejeh revealed how her relationship came to an abrupt end despite heading toward marriage. The couple's plans for a future together collapsed when the man's mother discovered that Perpetual hails from Benue state and strongly opposed the union.
The heartbreaking incident occurred in November 2025, leaving the young woman confused and emotional about the sudden turn of events. What made the situation particularly painful was that her partner apparently had no personal issues with her background, but ultimately yielded to his mother's objections.
Mother's Opposition to Benue Origin
In her viral TikTok post, Perpetual expressed her mixed emotions about the situation, stating she didn't know whether to be angry or laugh at the absurdity of the reason for the breakup. "I just lost a potential husband. Guess what? Because of my state. Because I'm from Benue state," she shared in the video.
The core issue emerged when the man's mother learned about Perpetual's Benue state origins and immediately voiced her disapproval of the relationship. This development highlights the persistent challenges that inter-tribal relationships sometimes face in Nigeria, where state of origin can unexpectedly become a deal-breaker in romantic partnerships.
Perpetual clarified that her former partner wasn't personally concerned about her geographical background, pointing instead to his mother as the source of the objection. This distinction makes the situation particularly frustrating, as the couple's connection was strong until external family pressures intervened.
Public Reactions and Support
The TikTok video quickly attracted numerous comments from Nigerians sharing their perspectives on the situation. Many viewers expressed sympathy for Perpetual while criticizing the mother's stance and the man's decision to comply with it.
One commenter, @Jasper, questioned the man's seriousness, stating: "The guy is not serious. My mommy can not and can never choose whom I will marry from." This sentiment was echoed by others who felt the man should have stood up for his relationship.
Another commenter, @Oscar Salt, defended Benue people, sharing: "But Benue people are good and have no problems at all, I have lived and work there and they treated me well until I left." This highlights the unfair stereotypes that sometimes affect people from certain regions.
Several commenters offered words of comfort and perspective, with @EDACHE noting: "God just saved you from future problems, so let it go your peace is priority." Others suggested that the experience, while painful, might ultimately work out for the best.
The incident has sparked broader discussions about whether such disappointments should be viewed as blessings in disguise or as genuine losses of opportunity in a country where finding compatible partners can be challenging.
