A young Nigerian man has ignited a fierce online discussion after a video where he passionately advises people against getting married went viral on social media.
Marriage is a 'Guaranteed Failure'
In the controversial clip posted on TikTok by user @maro.jeff, the man expressed sheer disbelief that people continue to enter into marriage in 2025, approaching 2026. He directly challenged those who choose to marry despite knowing that romantic feelings can change over time.
The man firmly stated that marriage represents a 100 percent guarantee for failure and questioned why individuals would make what he considers a poor investment with their own lives. His remarks have resonated with many young Nigerians who are increasingly questioning traditional life paths.
Social Media Erupts in Debate
The video quickly gathered momentum across various platforms, with users expressing strongly divided opinions. While some commenters supported the man's perspective, others defended the institution of marriage and the personal choice to wed.
One user, Samuella, countered that unmarried men often face greater misery than unmarried women. Another commenter, Narry, emphasized that our ancestors got married and lived happily, suggesting that finding the right partner is the key to success.
Meanwhile, Hack Smile provided a thoughtful counterpoint, highlighting that family provides support in old age that money cannot replace. The discussion revealed deep-seated concerns about modern relationships and changing social values.
Broader Context of Marriage Discussions
This incident occurs within a larger conversation about marriage in contemporary Nigerian society. The video emerges alongside previous reports of a young woman declaring she doesn't want to get married.
Additionally, award-winning author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has previously suggested that marriage should not be an aspiration for women, encouraging them instead to focus on becoming better versions of themselves. These perspectives collectively challenge conventional expectations about relationships and personal fulfillment in modern Nigeria.
The ongoing debate reflects evolving attitudes among Nigerian youth as they navigate between traditional values and contemporary realities, with many questioning long-held assumptions about life milestones and personal happiness.
