A young Nigerian woman has become the talk of social media after revealing the significant positive transformation in her life since she left the country and moved abroad to live with her husband.
From Nigeria to a New Life Abroad
The lady, who shares her journey on TikTok under the handle @xtylebyruthybeauty, disclosed that she relocated in July 2025. Merely four months after her move, she reports that her life has taken a remarkable turn for the better. She credited her marriage to a foreign national, often referred to in Nigerian parlance as an "Oyinbo" man, for facilitating this life-changing transition to his home country.
In a heartfelt post, she encouraged others not to lose hope in their personal journeys, stating: "I left Nigeria July 2025, 4 month later my life has changed so much abeg don’t give up on dating. Trust God and be patient."
A Story of Health and Transformation
One of the most striking details she shared was concerning her health and physique. The lady revealed that while residing in Nigeria, her weight was just 38 kilograms. She contrasted her previous meals with the nutritious food she now enjoys in her new home, suggesting her current diet has contributed to her improved well-being and appearance, which she describes as "shining."
Her video, which showcases her new life, quickly stirred a whirlwind of reactions from netizens, highlighting a mix of envy, curiosity, and critique.
Mixed Reactions from the Online Community
The comments section under her video became a forum for diverse opinions. While many sought practical advice on how to achieve a similar change, others questioned the narrative.
Some users focused on the practicalities: Comments like "Pls which dating app cos omo I don too suffer, help a sister" from @Genevieve and "Please which dating App did you use?" from @Blessing Anthony flooded the post. Others, already abroad, such as @okgrace898, asked: "I'm already in Europe but I need the app please."
Others offered congratulations or shared related experiences: User @Aduke’s Fine commented, "Anyone going to Cyprus will gain weight the food is amazing," while @LifeXDubai wrote, "I don’t know you but you deserve all the best in this world. Stay safe."
However, a significant number of reactions pushed back against the implied comparison. User @Gf beauty expressed a common sentiment: "I'm not against you guys but you let people think in Africa we very poor and desperate." @Black gold pointedly asked, "So crayfish, spaghetti, tomato and green pepper no dey Nigeria?" questioning the availability of good food in Nigeria. Another user, @JoeKing, took a different angle, commenting, "You are eating food with GMOs. In Africa you were eating organic foods natural healthy foods."
The discussion also touched on family, with @sassy strands Lagos posing a reflective question: "So if you can choose your parents you won't pick your mum and dad?"
This viral story echoes a previous report by Legit.ng where another Nigerian lady expressed joy after her husband fulfilled a promise to relocate her and her daughter abroad, indicating a recurring narrative of international relocation as a life goal for some.
