Controversial Relationship Advice Goes Viral in Nigeria
A Nigerian woman's unconventional relationship advice has sparked widespread discussion across social media platforms. Hauwa Mundi took to Facebook with a provocative message that challenges traditional friendship boundaries among women.
In her now-viral post shared on Thursday, November 7, 2025, Mundi directly addressed women who have friends in relationships with good men who aren't being properly appreciated.
The 'Collection' Philosophy
Hauwa Mundi's central argument revolves around the idea that if a woman has a friend who possesses a quality man but fails to value him or takes advantage of his kind nature, other women should feel empowered to "collect" him from her.
She elaborated that if the man refuses to be "collected," it indicates that "him sef him head no correct" - suggesting the man himself has questionable judgment. In such cases, she recommends allowing him to continue receiving what she humorously referred to as "wotowoto."
The Facebook post included a playful yet serious offer: "If you need help with the collecting, send me a DM, I have tips for you. But I will need hard evidence as proof that she's tripping."
Breaking the Sister Code
Mundi explicitly dismissed the concept of a "sis code" in such situations, indicating that traditional rules of friendship don't apply when one woman is mistreating a good man.
Her closing statement referenced the approaching year 2026 with the phrase "This 2026 wey we wan enta so, we no go use clear eye enteram," suggesting that women should enter the new year with strategic awareness rather than naive optimism in their dating lives.
The post has generated significant engagement, with many Nigerian women divided on the ethics of Mundi's advice. Some applaud her for encouraging women to recognize and value good men, while others criticize what they see as an endorsement of breaking trust between friends.
