A Nigerian woman has publicly appealed for assistance regarding her brother's alleged drug addiction, which she says started after he gained admission to the University of Lagos (UNILAG) in 2019 and has persisted for years. In an emotional video shared on social media, she described her exhaustion and desperation after serving as his primary caregiver.
Background of the Addiction
The woman explained that her brother's struggle with substance abuse began shortly after he enrolled at UNILAG. Despite her efforts to secure treatment, his condition has allegedly continued to deteriorate. She noted that she has taken him to approximately seven different psychiatric facilities and rehabilitation centres, including hospitals in Yaba and a military hospital, but none have produced lasting results.
Escalating Violence and Destructive Behavior
According to the woman, her brother has become increasingly violent and destructive. He often wanders aimlessly around Lagos, leaving her emotionally and physically drained after years of being his sole caregiver. The situation has forced her to take drastic measures to protect her own family.
Impact on Family and Living Situation
In a bid to shield her daughter from the chaos, the woman relocated from the family home. However, her brother and their parents later returned to her residence after reportedly being evicted from their previous accommodation. This has compounded her stress and financial burden.
Caregiver's Plea for Help
“I didn’t want to bring this to social media, but I’m drained and genuinely need help,” she stated in the video. “I’m tired of carrying responsibilities that I had no business carrying.” She appealed to anyone who can offer a solution, adding, “I don’t know where else to take him. I’ve taken him to hospitals. I’ve taken him to church. I don’t know again. I’m tired. Please, I’m drowning. I need help.”
Broader Context of Drug Abuse in Nigeria
This case highlights the growing concern over drug addiction among Nigerian youth, particularly in tertiary institutions. According to the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA), substance abuse has been on the rise, with many families struggling to access affordable and effective rehabilitation services. The woman's experience underscores the gaps in mental health and addiction support systems in the country, leaving caregivers overwhelmed and without adequate resources.
