The mother of the late Ahmed has broken her silence over the viral allegations made by her daughter-in-law, Tosin Omolola, who claimed that her husband’s family began harassing her just eight days after his demise. In a video recording sent to LIB, the grieving mother strongly denied the claims, insisting that the trending footage of her husband, 62-year-old Omolola David, locking a building gate was not an attempt to lock Tosin out of her matrimonial home.
Mother Clarifies Video Origin
Speaking in Yoruba, the deceased’s mother clarified that the video circulating online is not recent and does not feature the property left behind by her late son. According to her, the footage was recorded two years ago, in 2024, at the family’s own residence. She explained that the altercation captured in the video took place at their family home, not at her late son’s matrimonial home.
“Shortly after Ahmed fell ill, my husband and I decided to bring him and our grandchildren to our home because Tosin wasn't taking good care of him,” the mother claimed. She further alleged that Tosin later stormed the family residence to create a scene. Her husband, Omolola David, locked the estate gates solely to prevent the escalation of the drama, she said, and that was the exact moment captured in the viral video.
Family Dispute Attracts Activists and State Agency
The dispute has added a new layer to an unfolding controversy that has already drawn attention from local human rights activists and the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA). Human rights activist Harrison Gwamnishu first brought Tosin’s plight to light, prompting the Lagos State Police Command to step in. The public intervention transformed what started as a private family matter into a legal case.
Subsequently, the police arrested Tosin’s 62-year-old father-in-law, Omolola David. On Friday, July 31, David was arraigned before a Lagos State Magistrate Court on a two-count charge bordering on threat to life and assault against his daughter-in-law. The charges relate to the allegations of intimidation and harassment following the death of his son.
Bail Conditions and Next Steps
During the court proceedings, the magistrate granted bail to Omolola David. However, he remains in police custody after failing to meet the bail conditions set by the court. According to reports, David is expected to regain his freedom next week once he perfects his bail requirements. The case has been adjourned for further hearings, though the specific next court date has not been disclosed in the video.
The mother’s video statement adds a significant counter-narrative to the claims made by Tosin. While Tosin had alleged that her husband’s family began harassing her just days after her husband’s death, the mother insists that the family had stepped in to care for Ahmed because his wife was neglecting him. The mother also denied that the property in the viral video belonged to her late son, reiterating that it was their own family residence.
Broader Implications of the Dispute
This case has sparked discussions about the treatment of widows in Nigeria, particularly with regard to inheritance and property rights. The involvement of the DSVA and human rights activists underscores the seriousness of the allegations. As the legal process unfolds, both parties are expected to present their evidence in court.
Observers note that disputes over matrimonial homes are not uncommon in Nigeria, often leading to prolonged legal battles when families disagree over ownership. The viral video played a key role in drawing public sympathy to Tosin’s side initially, but the mother’s clarification may shift some perceptions. For now, the matter remains before the court, and Omolola David’s release from custody is pending the fulfillment of his bail conditions.
The mother’s statement arrives amid heightened public interest, with many social media users following the case closely. Legal analysts point out that the two-count charge of threat to life and assault carries significant penalties if convicted, making the bail condition process critical for the defendant. Meanwhile, Tosin Omolola has not yet publicly responded to the mother’s latest claims.
As the legal battle continues, the family dispute has become a cautionary tale about the importance of clear estate planning and the need for extended families to respect the rights of widows. The Lagos State DSVA is known for intervening in domestic violence and family disputes, and its presence in this case signals that the government is treating the matter with utmost seriousness.
Watch the video of the mother speaking below.
