A young Nigerian woman has sparked widespread conversation online after revealing a shocking message from her former boyfriend, sent just after he married another woman.
The Shocking Revelation on Social Media
Hafsat Umar Faruq, a medical student, took to social media on Saturday, December 27, to share a screenshot of a message that left many in disbelief. The post exposed a private conversation where her ex-boyfriend attempted to explain his sudden marriage to another woman.
In her caption accompanying the screenshot, Hafsat expressed her pain and disillusionment. She pointed out the stark difference between words and actions, stating that true love is demonstrated through commitment, not announced after a betrayal has occurred.
The Ex-Boyfriend's Controversial Promise
The message from the man, whose identity was not fully disclosed, contained a series of justifications and a surprising proposition. He began by apologizing for informing her of his marriage only after the fact, claiming he had been too busy to tell her earlier.
He then made the extraordinary declaration that his marriage to another woman did not diminish his feelings for Hafsat. His proposed solution was for her to become his second wife. He swore on his faith, writing "Wallahi", and pleaded for forgiveness, asking her not to be heartbroken because he still loved and cared for her.
The core of his message was a repeated promise: "I promise to marry you as a second wife." This attempt to maintain a relationship after secretly marrying someone else has been widely criticized by social media users who saw Hafsat's post.
Public Reaction and Broader Conversation
The shared screenshot has ignited a fierce debate across Nigerian social media platforms. Many users have rallied in support of Hafsat, praising her courage for making the situation public and rejecting the proposal outright.
The incident has opened up discussions on several key issues prevalent in modern Nigerian relationships:
- The ethics of polygamy and how it is initiated.
- The importance of honesty and communication before major life decisions.
- The emotional impact of betrayal and broken trust.
- The societal pressures and personal choices surrounding marriage.
Hafsat's decision to share this private message highlights a growing trend where individuals, especially young women, are using online platforms to call out perceived injustice and emotional manipulation, seeking solidarity and sparking national conversations.
As of now, there has been no public response from the man involved. The story, originally reported by Linda Ikeji's blog, continues to circulate, serving as a cautionary tale about love, promises, and the complex realities of contemporary relationships in Nigeria.
