Popular Nigerian rapper and singer, Ice Prince Zamani, has sparked a conversation online after openly sharing his personal anxieties about the institution of marriage. The 'Oleku' crooner expressed that contemporary trends are instilling a sense of fear in single individuals like himself regarding tying the knot.
Everyday Stories Fueling Apprehension
In a candid social media post made on Friday, December 6, 2024, Ice Prince did not hold back. He stated that it seems like every day brings a new story or situation that discourages people from considering marriage. The artist pointed to the real-life example of a close friend to illustrate his point.
"My guy wey just marry 2024 no dey answer wife call again and wants out," he wrote, highlighting a scenario that he finds deeply concerning. This frank revelation about a friend's marital struggles within a year of marriage served as a central pillar of his argument about the current climate surrounding unions.
A Direct Message to Single Men Nearing 40
Ice Prince then turned his attention directly to his peers, posing a series of pointed questions that resonate with many. "Yo Single fellas approaching 40, Wagwan ?! Pls what's the update these days ?! what we doing ?!" he queried. This call-out reflects a broader societal moment where many Nigerian men are reassessing timelines and expectations for marriage amidst changing social dynamics.
His advice, however, shifted from expressing fear to advocating for profound personal responsibility. He urged men to engage in serious self-examination before making a lifelong commitment to another person.
The Crucial Call for Self-Reflection Before Proposal
The core of Ice Prince's message was a powerful admonition for intentionality and honesty. He emphasized that the journey to a successful marriage must begin with the individual.
"My brother check yourself properly before you tell person daughter or another man sister say 'you want to be the head coach in her life oo'," he advised, using a relatable Nigerian phrase. He stressed the non-negotiable need for personal cleansing and truthfulness. "Cleanse yourself first, look yourself well and tell yourself the truth first my brother," he concluded, framing self-awareness as the essential first step for any man considering marriage.
By sharing his fears and this advice, Ice Prince has moved beyond celebrity gossip to tap into a genuine conversation about relationships, personal readiness, and the pressures facing single men in modern Nigerian society.
