Angelina Jolie's Brother James Haven Comes Out as Gay
James Haven, Angelina Jolie's Brother, Comes Out as Gay

James Haven, the actor and filmmaker known as the brother of Angelina Jolie and son of Jon Voight, has publicly come out as gay. He made the announcement during a live conversation on his former wife Romi Imbelli's Substack, where they discussed their evolving friendship after their brief marriage.

Announcement and Personal Letter

During the livestream, Haven read a personal letter reflecting on his journey of self-acceptance. He recalled his childhood fascination with Disney princesses, glitter, and mascara, describing these as moments when he felt "more like me." As he grew older, he felt societal pressure to hide that part of himself to fit in.

Haven explained that many gay children struggle with self-acceptance due to societal expectations, adding that he spent years suppressing his identity before deciding to embrace it openly. He stated, "Coming out isn't about becoming someone new; it's about allowing everyone else to meet the person who has been here all along."

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Family and Support

He expressed hope that his family and others would respond with love, understanding, and acceptance rather than judgment. In his letter, Haven wrote that he is proud of who he has become and no longer feels the need to apologize for his identity. Reflecting on his younger self, he described the little boy who enjoyed glitter and mascara as "simply gay," calling him joyful and brave.

Marriage and Friendship with Romi Imbelli

Haven married Romi Imbelli in 2024, but the marriage ended just days later. Despite the split, the two have remained close friends and are currently collaborating on adapting Imbelli's book into a television series, with Haven attached to direct the project.

Public Reaction

His announcement has drawn attention online, with many offering messages of support following his decision to publicly share his sexuality.

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