A viral social media drama has captured attention after a Nigerian lady, identified as Amaka Uniqueblack, shared a scathing voice message from a man who proposed to her. The core of the conflict stems from the man's intense anger following her rejection, which he linked to her prior acceptance of gifts from him.
The Proposal and the Perfume Controversy
According to the lady's account shared on TikTok, the man asked for her hand in marriage. She, however, turned down the proposal, describing it as "fake." What seemingly triggered the man's fury was the fact that Amaka had previously accepted gifts from him. The man, in his rage, claimed the lady wanted perfumes worth N200,000, though it remains unconfirmed if he actually purchased them for her. Amaka confirmed receiving two perfumes from him prior to the proposal incident.
Baffled by the violent reaction to her decision, Amaka took to social media to pose a question to the public. "I rejected his fake marriage proposal and he got angry because he got two perfume for me. Why do men finds it difficult to accept rejection?" she wrote.
The Viral Voice Note: A Tirade of Insults
The heart of the online storm is the WhatsApp voice note the man sent, which Amaka made public. In the audio, the man is heard lambasting her with a torrent of insults. His anger was palpable as he belittled her, stating that she did not measure up to the standard of woman he should be associating with. The tone and content of the message shocked many listeners, shifting the discussion from a simple rejection story to one about male entitlement and toxic reactions.
Netizens React: A Divided Court of Public Opinion
The shared voice note sparked a flood of reactions from Nigerians online, with opinions sharply divided.
Some commenters criticized the man's inability to handle rejection gracefully. User @Victor (project manager) noted, "Sincerely speaking a lot of us men don't know how to deal with rejection.....man how can you be this proud bro." @Empress Julian supported Amaka, writing, "I’m proud of you girl, imagine ending with this kind of man as a husband? Tueh."
Others, however, felt the man had a point about accepting gifts before a rejection. User @ODOGWU FACO simply stated, "He's actually saying the truth though," implying sympathy for the man's position. The incident also prompted calls for women to expose such men, with @sheismimii_ advising, "Time don reach for you guys to dey add pictures of these men make we avoid them at all cost."
The debate expanded as users shared similar experiences. @CROSS RIVER STATE GIRL recounted, "He sent 10k for me and said I was supposed to come to his house and wash his clothes and clean everywhere, I just block am." Meanwhile, @Afia Barcelona 2.0 posed a critical question: "And why do they suddenly realize their worth after they get rejected?"
The story was first reported by Legit.ng on December 5, 2025, by human-interest editor Israel Usulor. This incident echoes a previous report by the same platform about a single mother who showed off engagement rings from three past relationships, highlighting recurring themes of failed romantic engagements and the complex dynamics of gift-giving in relationships.
