Gbemi, the woman currently in a relationship with MC Fish, has publicly accused women of weaponising their emotional pain to bring men down after a divorce. In a series of Instagram Stories, she criticised what she perceives as a damaging trend where women use their hurt to destroy men's reputations, insisting that truth will ultimately prevail.
Gbemi wrote: 'And innocent blogs are being used as a tool women have weaponize the voice that is meant for people in pain to destroy men just because of the hurt of being divorced it's very sad but the truth would always prevail.' Her comments were a direct response to a post that read: 'IT SEEMS THERE IS THIS NEW TREND OF "MAN MUST GO DOWN" WHEN THERE IS DIVORCED. COME ON, THIS AIN'T COOL AT COOL. NOT ALL OF US WILL BUY INTO THIS. YOU ALL CAN'T PLAY QUEEN MAY'S REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE IN A EVERY DIVORCE SAGA. SOMETIMES DIVORCE HAPPENS SIMPLY CUZ THE MARRIAGE ISN'T WORKING NOT EVERY MAN IS A YUL AND NOT EVERY WOMAN IS A QUEEN MAY.'
Context of the Public Fallout
Gbemi's statement comes months after MC Fish and his former wife, actress Anita Joseph, engaged in a highly publicised online feud following the revelation that their marriage had ended. The couple, once considered a staple in the Nigerian entertainment industry, aired their grievances on social media, drawing widespread attention and sparking debates about divorce dynamics in the public eye.
Reactions and Implications
Gbemi's remarks have ignited conversations about gender dynamics and the use of social media in personal conflicts. While some have supported her call for fairness, others have criticised her for dismissing genuine pain experienced by women. The incident underscores the ongoing tensions surrounding high-profile divorces and the role of digital platforms in amplifying personal grievances.
