Reality television star Porsha Williams has opened up about her journey to understanding romance and relationships, declaring that she has finally figured out dating at the age of 44.
BravoCon Revelation
The Real Housewives of Atlanta personality shared her personal dating evolution during a panel session at BravoCon 2025 in Las Vegas. Her comments came in response to a fan in her 30s who sought relationship guidance from the experienced reality star.
Williams explained that it took her decades to truly understand herself and what she genuinely wants from a partner. She described herself as a hopeless romantic who used to fall in love too quickly, but now approaches relationships with more wisdom and self-awareness.
Dating Wisdom and Red Flags
The television personality offered crucial advice to women seeking meaningful connections. "Date knowing who you are," Williams emphasized, adding that women should leave immediately when they spot red flags in potential partners.
She acknowledged that reaching this level of dating clarity didn't happen overnight. "I had to wait till 44 to figure it out," Williams revealed, encouraging women not to put excessive pressure on themselves to have all the answers about relationships at a young age.
Current Relationship Status
During the same event, Williams confirmed she's actively dating but clarified that she isn't in an exclusive relationship yet. She mentioned focusing her attention on one particular person and seeing where the connection might lead.
This revelation follows her recent appearance at CultureCon in New York, where she disclosed that she's dating both men and women. Williams explained that she's adjusting to partners who don't engage in "love bombing" - the intense showering of affection and attention that can sometimes signal unhealthy relationship patterns.
The reality star shared that she's learning to open up more gradually in new relationships, accept honest feedback from partners, and avoid expecting grand, elaborate gestures that might not reflect genuine connection.
Williams was previously married to Simon Guobadia, with their divorce being finalized in June 2025. Her journey through marriage and divorce appears to have contributed significantly to her current perspective on love and relationships.
