Veteran actress Shan George has weighed into the trending marital controversy involving media personality Frank Edoho, his estranged wife Sandra, and singer Chike. In a recent social media statement, George strongly criticized the singer who allegedly had sexual relations with Sandra while she was still married to Frank.
Unacceptable Sacrilege
She argued that any man who sleeps with a married woman commits an 'unacceptable sacrilege.' She added that Chike owes Mr. Edoho an apology. Addressing the core of the ongoing online debate, the actress pointed out that keeping malice is a normal part of life, experienced even among parents and professional colleagues. She maintained that a spouse keeping malice should never be used as an excuse for infidelity.
Advice to Women
George concluded by advising that if a woman is unhappy or exhausted in her marriage, she should legally and respectfully walk away rather than resorting to cheating. Her post reads: 'Any man who's joy stick rises for another man's WIFE, has committed an unacceptable sacrilege, even if she and her man are keeping malice, or any other issues whatsoever between them, as long as the woman and her husband still reside under the same roof, it's a No No. People keep malice with each other everywhere, marriage, office, etc, even parents keep malice with their children sometimes. Malice is a part of life, we are all guilty of it one time or another.'
Personal Anecdote
'I remember not too long ago when music star Mr Eazi sent his wife an email, and she complained about how he's kept her malice over the issue for days, only to be sending her e-mail discussing the same issue. He could have talked to her directly to talk about it, but he sent e-mail. Not everyone enjoys rancour or confrontations, so some people simply keep quiet for sometime, while they process. One's Approach towards such periods is what determines a win or lose in that marriage. Any form of 'Do me I do you' must be avoided at such times, until you resolve the issues.'
Generational Curses
'Traditionally, Spiritually, Morally, Romantically, and otherwise, sleeping with another man's wife is a TUFIAKWA that carries generational curses. Mothers, please tell your sons. As for the ladies, please if the marriage tires you, after you have tried your best, please leave the marriage, doing asiawo inside marriage is a sacrilege. In conclusion, Chike owes Frank Edoho and all men whose wives he has chewed, an apology. If you like chewing older women, it's not a crime, but please focus on chewing the unmarried ones.'
