Apostle Johnson Suleman and gospel singer Dunsin Oyekan have publicly spoken against malice and silent grudges in relationships, coinciding with the ongoing marital crisis of popular TV host Frank Edoho and his estranged wife, Sandra.
Apostle Suleman Warns Against Malice
In a trending video, Apostle Johnson Suleman told his congregation that men who keep malice are dangerous and can destroy marriages. He illustrated that a partner who blocks and unblocks on social media is still better than one who stays silent for days. The clergyman urged women to avoid such partners, describing them as worse than herbalists and capable of enslaving their spouses.
“A man that keeps malice is worse than a herbalist. If you get married, it’s trouble. You’ll be in the same house and always be the one saying sorry. That is like slavery,” he said.
Dunsin Oyekan Jokes About Malice
Another clip showed Dunsin Oyekan teaching his church that he avoids speaking on issues until he understands God’s perspective. He noted that while people may hear noise and thunder, God’s voice is often quiet. He then joked about his own ability to keep malice.
“If you wonder why I don’t talk on many issues online, it’s because I want to first understand from God’s perspective before I open mouth and talk… Ah, you don’t know me. I can keep malice,” he said.
When he mentioned “I can keep malice,” church members burst into cheers and laughter, connecting his words to Frank Edoho’s situation.
Frank Edoho’s Statement on Malice
In an old interview with Teju Babyface, Frank Edoho explained that malice was his preferred way of punishing his partner. He said he could stay in the same house without speaking to her for a long time if she crossed the line. This statement has been linked to the ongoing marital crisis involving allegations of a secret affair with singer Chike.
Public Reactions
Social media users quickly connected both sermons to Frank Edoho’s situation. Comments included:
- @PreshAyo25: “Bvllets Dey hot Frank Edoho”
- @PlacidChief: “This chike matter isn't ending anytime soon?”
- @Marybeyin: “Communication solves a lot of issues faster than pride ever will, keeping malice is evil.”
- @sunky004: “There is no manual for this thing, a manipulative soul can block and unblock you just to waste your time”
- @chrisbrokes: “Some people use ‘I’m just protecting my peace’ to justify silent punishment. Communication solves more than malice ever will.”
- @iamjshadow1: “It's better to be a malice keeping guy than to be a woman beater”
Shan George Reacts to Edoho’s Marital Saga
Veteran actress Shan George also reacted to the controversy, stating that intimacy with another man’s wife is unacceptable regardless of marital issues. She urged Chike to apologize to Frank Edoho and advised men to avoid married women, warning of spiritual and traditional consequences.
Neither Apostle Suleman nor Dunsin Oyekan directly mentioned Frank Edoho, but many worshippers connected their words to his recent statements, sparking online debates as the videos continue to trend.



