Nollywood star Timini Egbuson has ignited a fresh wave of debate online after detailing how some men strategically build emotional bonds with women who are already in committed relationships. The 38-year-old actor shared his insights during a recent podcast, explaining that many men avoid direct romantic advances initially and instead position themselves as supportive friends.
Timini Egbuson's Podcast Revelation
According to Timini, the tactic involves being consistently available, listening without judgment, and offering unwavering support. Over time, the woman may begin to perceive her partner's concerns as controlling, while the "friend" appears more understanding and reliable. He emphasized that the approach is not about making sexual advances but about gradually cultivating trust and closeness.
"Again, if I’m moving to your babe, I’m not going to pretend I like her. I’m just going to be talking to her, and you can’t honestly say anything, because you’re going to sound like a dovchebag if you are stopping her from talking to me. That’s the way guys move to babes now. So he’s not going to be saying, oh, let me see your underwear. He’s going to be friendly, break his way in. If you complain about another person being there, it’s going to make you seem weird, and if you fight me for being friends with your girlfriend, you’re going to look mad or crazy," Timini said.
Comparisons to Chike and Frank Edoho Saga
Timini's comments quickly drew parallels to the ongoing controversy involving singer Chike, Sandra, and media personality Frank Edoho. Many social media users linked the actor's description to Chike's alleged romantic involvement with Sandra, who is estranged from Frank Edoho, the host of Who Wants to Be a Millionaire.
Netizens React
Social media users flooded platforms with reactions, many recognizing the tactics described by Timini. Some comments referenced the Chike scandal directly.
- @yusufdeysteady said: "See second chike?"
- @adhijojnr commented: "This has always been their script. Same way chike befriended Sandra and Frank was complaining till he sleep with her. Same tactics. He is just a friend."
- @Dating_OS wrote: "The male friend strategy works because it hides desire behind emotional availability."
- @ohizCZN reacted: "Na longterm game be this. Timini don guide, if you never guide and you use this scope, you dey reduce your guiding probability by 35%."
- @jamesekundayo3 said: "Na unna dey use money collect person babe, well na material you buy, no fit be person actual woman."
Related Incident: Timini and Bimbo Ademoye Kissing Video
Earlier, an old video featuring Timini and actress Bimbo Ademoye also stirred reactions online. In the clip, Timini complimented Bimbo before leaning in to kiss her on the lips, while she displayed mixed facial expressions. The video divided fans, with some questioning Timini's behavior and others defending Bimbo, noting her body language suggested discomfort.
