A Nigerian woman, Chioma Omeje, has taken to social media to share photos of herself, revealing how she looked during her marriage and after her divorce. In a post that has garnered significant attention, she asked her followers to be the judge of her transformation.
The Transformation Story
Omeje recounted how she let herself go during her marriage, describing herself as being as big as a 'room and parlour.' She wrote in a Facebook post on Saturday, May 2, 2026, 'I dusted myself very well. While inside that sh!t whole called marriage, I was super big then, as in room and parlour.' She emphasized the importance of self-care, stating, 'Take care of yourself, your messiah wouldn’t want to associate with a disorganized fellow. Work on yourself like your life depends on it.'
Advice to Women in Toxic Marriages
Omeje advised women in toxic marriages not to have more than one child, as it becomes difficult and messy to walk away or survive a breakup when multiple children are involved. She warned, 'No matter who you think you are, both in real life and spirit world, a ba!d man will show you shege if you jam one!' She urged women not to stay too long trying to figure things out, but to leave immediately. 'Do not follow my mother’s advice of having all your children with one m!add man please, you can try with another sane person Nnem. It gets really messy when you want to leave with kids more than 2. Go to any nearest healthcare, mee family planning, it’s affordable there. If it’s just one child, close the chapter of making it 2, all in the name ka my kids bia from the same man. It takes by his grace to survive breakup with multiple children.'
