Toyin Abraham Stands Firm on Kneeling to Greet Elders Despite Online Backlash
Nollywood actress Toyin Abraham has publicly defended her practice of kneeling to greet older people and respected figures, pushing back against recent criticism that questioned the necessity of such gestures. The actress asserted that she sees nothing wrong with this act of respect and has no intention of stopping it for those she believes deserve it.
Social Media Exchange Sparks Debate
The controversy erupted after a user on X, identified as Lady Victoria, commented on Abraham's habit of kneeling at events, suggesting it was unnecessary. In a direct response, Abraham wrote, "I won't stop kneeling to people who value and deserve it, my darling. I will continue to go on my both knees to greet people who value and deserve it no matter the status." This exchange followed the circulation of a video from the 70th birthday celebration of former Ogun State Governor, Otunba Gbenga Daniel, where Abraham was seen kneeling to greet prominent businesswoman Shade Okoya, her husband Alhaji Rasaq Okoya, and other notable guests.
Mixed Reactions from Online Community
The video quickly stirred a heated debate on social media, with users expressing diverse opinions. Some defended Abraham, arguing that her actions reflect Yoruba cultural values rooted in respect, courtesy, and good upbringing. They praised her for upholding traditions that honor elders. However, others criticized the gesture, contending that while greeting elders respectfully is important, fully kneeling—especially in a manner that makes it difficult to rise without assistance—might be excessive for a woman of her age and status. Lady Victoria, who described herself as a fan, urged Abraham to reconsider, stating, "Those women she keeps kneeling for are not so much older than her," and suggesting it diminished her self-worth.
Political Undertones and Broader Implications
In her comments, Lady Victoria also referenced Abraham's past support for President Bola Tinubu during the 2023 election season, a stance that had previously caused backlash among some followers. She wrote, "We Nigerians have forgiven you for supporting City Boy in 2023. It's time you forgive yourself too and carry yourself with pride and grace." Abraham did not address this political aspect, instead focusing on her commitment to showing deep respect to elders and dignitaries as a value she proudly upholds. The incident highlights ongoing discussions about cultural norms, personal dignity, and the intersection of celebrity actions with public perception in Nigeria's entertainment landscape.
