Nigerian Man in UK Explains Why He Stopped Paying Tithes After Relocating Abroad
A Nigerian man, who was once a consistent tither at his church in Nigeria, has publicly disclosed that he has ceased paying tithes since relocating to the United Kingdom. In a tweet on X, he shared the reasons behind his changed conviction and how he responded to his mother's confrontation about the matter.
He emphasized that his story is not intended to discourage others from tithing or to portray Nigerian churches negatively, but rather reflects his personal beliefs based on his experiences abroad.
From Regular Tither to Stopping Payments
The man, using the X handle @Prestigious_Gt, recounted that he never missed a monthly tithe payment while living in Nigeria. However, after moving to the UK, he sent tithes to his home church only twice before completely stopping. He explained that his church in the UK does not require tithes, and offerings are not compulsory for members.
He noted additional benefits at his UK church, such as meals provided every Sunday and a designated area where needy individuals can collect free food. This led him to question the allocation of tithes in his Nigerian church, where he observed no similar provisions for the poor.
Conversation with His Mother
When his mother called to inquire about his cessation of tithe payments, he detailed the differences in church practices. He asked her where all the tithes paid in Nigeria were directed, highlighting the absence of food storage or assistance programs for the less fortunate. He believes that supporting the needy should be a core purpose of tithing.
In response, his mother concluded that he had backslidden in his faith, illustrating a generational and cultural divide in perspectives on religious giving.
Social Media Reactions
The tweet sparked varied reactions from users on X:
- @richdotcom81 commented on the perceived role of tithes in Nigeria versus the reliability of systems in the UK.
- @aot_Lier argued that tithes are given to God, not man, and should not be questioned.
- @Samvicck_ suggested that tithing is more necessary in poverty-stricken countries to seek divine intervention.
- @dbayox praised the man for asking tough questions that older generations might avoid.
- @onecronos linked the issue to broader family dynamics, particularly involving mothers and religious leaders.
Related Context
This story echoes other reports where individuals have shared positive financial outcomes after stopping tithe payments, challenging traditional beliefs about monetary giving in religious contexts. It underscores ongoing debates within the Nigerian diaspora about faith, finance, and cultural practices.
The narrative highlights how relocation can reshape personal convictions, influenced by exposure to different societal norms and church structures abroad.
