Nigerian socialite and businesswoman Folake Flakkyfaj has stirred significant controversy online after reacting to a viral video from comedian Damilola Adekoya, popularly known as Princess. The comedian had publicly expressed her frustration with being single and directly called out several prominent pastors to help her find a husband.
The Spark: Princess' Public Plea for a Husband
In the now-trending video, Princess humorously yet earnestly appealed to clerics including Pastor Jerry Eze and Pastor Bolaji Idowu. She questioned if they had responsible, marriage-ready men in their congregations whom she could meet. The comedian revealed she had previously commented about her single status on the pastors' social media posts, but felt her concerns were often met with laughter rather than serious assistance, prompting her to make a direct public appeal.
Folake Flakkyfaj's Controversial Clapback
Reacting to the video, Folake Flakkyfaj took to her Facebook page on January 16, 2026, to taunt the comedian. In her post, she suggested that Princess should look for a husband in Arab countries, asserting that men in Nigeria are afraid of her. To drive her point home, Flakkyfaj referenced the high-profile criminal case involving actor Baba Ijesha and used a poignant Yoruba proverb to explain her stance.
The proverb, "Afi fila pa erin, ojokan lo niyin mo" (meaning someone who uses a mere cap to kill an elephant is praised for only that day), was central to her argument. She likened it to a situation where a person performs an extraordinary act that initially draws admiration, but later instills fear. The implication was that people begin to think, "if he could kill an elephant with a cap, what could he do to a human?" This, Flakkyfaj suggested, was why men might be wary of Princess.
Mixed Reactions from Divided Fans
The socialite's post immediately sparked a firestorm of reactions, dividing fans of both celebrities. One camp defended Princess, arguing that the Baba Ijesha case was a legitimate legal matter where the actor was found guilty and sentenced to 16 years in prison for molesting Princess's 14-year-old foster daughter. They stated that Princess did not fabricate the case and that court evidence substantiated the charges.
Others, however, sided with Folake Flakkyfaj, insisting that Princess's actions in the past had consequences. Comments from fans reflected the split. User @wuraola_arik wrote, "You are definitely talking about irresponsible men. Not real men that know a girl child should be protected." Another, @olawunmi_28, noted the gravity of the proverb: "That proverb goes a long way o. Omo, na strong words be that." Meanwhile, @adelekeadesewaadejoke1 questioned Flakkyfaj's judgment: "Weytn she do why do you think she can’t get husband are you God?"
The online debate highlights the lingering social complexities surrounding the Baba Ijesha saga and how it continues to influence public perception of the individuals involved, years after the legal verdict was delivered.
