A Nigerian man, Neme Love, has publicly criticized men who mistreat their ex-wives and children after divorce, stating that if a woman has given him children, he would willingly allow her to take up to 60% of his wealth. In a Facebook post, he detailed the actions of five male friends in his circle who are ex-husbands, accusing them of being wicked and failing to provide for their families.
Stories of Ex-Husbands Avoiding Responsibilities
Neme Love recounted specific cases to illustrate his point. One friend filed for divorce and began dating a wealthier woman, but when his ex-wife requested child support for their two children, he quit his job and resorted to government assistance. He continued earning through other means and received support from his new, non-Nigerian girlfriend. Neme Love questioned the morality of such actions, noting that the same man would criticize Nigerian women online for speaking out about men's behavior.
Another friend, according to Neme Love, acts as if his ex-wife and child do not exist, while living an extravagant lifestyle. He wrote, "I won’t call all the cases today.. but when I think of it.. Some of you men have dealt so unfavorably to Naija women and it’s really not fair.. The women are not all innocent, but Mehn.. sometimes you don’t even have to go all Prince of Demon on someone.. be gracious.."
Personal Stance on Wealth Sharing
Neme Love expressed his own view, stating that if a woman has given him two or three children, he would be comfortable with her taking half or even 60% of his wealth. He argued that he works for his family's future, not for himself alone. He even calculated his personal expenses, saying he could live comfortably on N2 million a month (N500,000 a week) in Nigeria, as he does not drink or spend extravagantly.
He concluded by addressing the ex-husbands in his acquaintance, asking, "So all you wicked Ex-husbands in my acquaintance list.. this entire money you’ve made.. who did you make it for?? I want to learn.."
Impact and Reactions
The post, shared by Linda Ikeji on August 27, 2026, has sparked discussions about the responsibilities of divorced fathers in Nigeria. Neme Love's comments highlight a growing frustration with men who avoid financial obligations to their children, while also acknowledging that women are not entirely blameless. The story serves as a call for grace and fairness in post-divorce arrangements.
