Nigerian singer Rybeena has publicly explained why he and his wife, content creator and actress Kidbaby, have decided not to have a child in Nigeria. The couple's decision is rooted in concerns about the country's economic situation, living conditions, and social environment, as Rybeena detailed during a recent podcast appearance.
Rybeena Cites Economic and Social Concerns
Speaking on the Wahala Podcast, Rybeena candidly discussed parenthood and the challenges children would face growing up in Nigeria. He pointed to his personal experiences and his perception of the country's development as key factors influencing the couple's choice.
“Because of my experience and the way the country is, we are far behind among other countries even though we have most richest people in Africa,” Rybeena said. He further argued that Nigeria lags behind many other nations despite being home to some of Africa's wealthiest individuals.
“Having a Child Here Is Messed Up”
Rybeena elaborated on the specific reasons behind the decision, expressing deep concerns about Nigeria's economy and what he described as the prevailing mentality among people. These factors, he explained, make raising a child in Nigeria particularly troubling for him and his wife.
“Our economy and everything. So us having a child here is messed up for real,” he stated. He added that the mentality children are exposed to also matters greatly when considering where to raise them, emphasizing that the environment plays a crucial role in a child's development.
Social Media Reactions to Rybeena's Interview
Following the interview, social media users shared a range of reactions. Legit.ng compiled comments from various platforms, reflecting both support and criticism of Rybeena's stance.
One user, @SudotechLimited, commented: “You can’t even afford to raise a kid in expensive neighborhoods in Nigeria. Goodbye to doing your slavery job overseas whenever your “Japa” mentality comes true.” Another, @Eleniyanbond, wrote: “Ribena abi lucozade, carry your wife go where pleases you. We don’t care bro.”
@Anonymouslum0 added: “Dey play you no know say your carrier dey far behind,,, you want run leave your country wey you suppose fix go another man land wey him don use blood, sweat and sacrifice build, na why South Africa see us wyn be this.”
Rybeena's revelation comes amid ongoing discussions about emigration and living conditions in Nigeria. His comments highlight a broader sentiment among some Nigerians regarding the challenges of raising a family in the country, a topic that continues to spark debate online and offline.
