Popular Nigerian rapper Erigga has sparked serious conversation across social media after sharing his personal experience growing up in a polygamous household. The Warri-born artist didn't hold back while expressing his strong views about the practice that shaped his early life.
The Painful Reality of Multiple Wives
In a heartfelt revelation, Erigga stated clearly that in his view, polygamy only brings suffering to women and children. He described the constant competition and jealousy that defined his childhood home, where multiple wives and their children lived under one roof.
"Growing up in that environment showed me things no child should witness," the rapper shared. "The fighting, the favoritism, the emotional damage - it stays with you forever."
A Childhood Marked by Conflict
Erigga painted a vivid picture of the challenges he faced:
- Constant tension between his mother and other wives
- Children being pitted against each other
- Limited resources creating fierce competition
- Emotional neglect as attention was divided among many
"When a man has multiple wives, the children become casualties in a silent war," he explained, highlighting how sibling relationships suffered due to the complex family dynamics.
Breaking the Cycle
Despite his difficult upbringing, Erigga has chosen a different path for his own family. The rapper, known for his raw and authentic lyrics, emphasized that he would never subject his children to the same environment he endured.
"I saw firsthand how this system breaks women and damages children emotionally. Why would I continue that cycle?" he questioned.
His courageous confession has resonated with many Nigerians who have experienced similar family situations, sparking important discussions about traditional marriage practices in modern African society.
