Summer Robert, the woman known for having the UK's largest breasts due to a rare condition called macromastia, has opened up about how her appearance has turned dating into a nightmare. Despite building a lucrative career and a global following from her size 30R breasts, she says the constant objectification and fetishisation have made it nearly impossible to find genuine romance.
Constant questions about her chest
On dating apps, Summer says conversations almost always immediately shift to her giant breasts. “They message me and they go, ‘Is your back sore? Oh my god, look at the size of your t---. Oh my god, your t--- are so big,’” she says. “I’m like, ‘Bro, say hello. How are you? Ask me how I am.’ That’s it. Every other conversation is about my chest.”
For Summer, the relentless sexual comments are exhausting. Rather than being asked about her personality, interests, or life, she says men often jump straight to explicit remarks. “Like a guy the other night who was really cute said, ‘Oh, let’s go home, we can have sex and I’ll stick it in between your boobs,’” she recalls. “What do you mean? Ask me something first, please. It’s so annoying and idiotic.”
Dates treated as a path to sex
Summer says the experience rarely improves once she meets someone face to face. Instead of romance, she often feels like dates are viewed as a direct pathway to sex. “It’s never romantic,” she explains. “It’s always just they want to come over and they want to have sex and they want to leave. I don’t really get wined and dined. Not that I want to, but it’s annoying it’s not even offered.”
One recent encounter left her particularly disappointed. After kissing a man she had been talking to, Summer says he immediately suggested they go home and film content together. “He ruined it,” she says. “I just walked away from him. Every single date I’ve been on has always been over-sexualised.”
Men with a fetish for big breasts
Summer has also noticed a pattern where men who show interest in her appear to already have a fixation on women with larger boobs. “I’ve had boys that I’ve gone on dates with, and then I check who they follow afterward, and it’s just tons of girls with big boobs,” she says. “So I’m like, ‘Oh, so you fetishised me. Okay, I was just your fetish.’”
Despite her public image and career, Summer says what she wants most is a traditional, loving relationship, marriage, and a family. Macromastia, the condition she lives with, causes her breasts to continue growing, which has brought fame but also significant challenges in her personal life.
